I dont know if I can help, but at least you know someone has a similar prob, but just not as serious.
Ive been depressed since I was a kid, but it went away for about a year, and for the last 3months ive been depressed again.
Ive had bladder infections a lot when I was a child.
So for the last 3months, when I feel really depressed or when im around a lot of people and im frustrated, I have to go to straight to the bathroom.
I find at work, I find im not in control of my bladder and as soon I need to go- I have to go!
Ive been to the docotrs who have said I dont have another bladder infection. And I dont know wot it is at all.
It doesnt happen all the time, but it happens enough to get worried about.
Im sorry I cant help you, or diognose you... But are symtpoms are similar.
Good luck buddy.