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Q: My Family Eating.
asked by: jayhawk0192 on October 6th, 2006
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I just turned 15 a few days go, and ever since I can remember..I have been extremly annoyed by people in my family smacking their lips when they are eating. But in the past year or 2, i've noticed that anybody in my family (just the family I live with in my house) well, I can't even watch them eat. It's not just the noise that annoys me now, its them actually eating. Whenever im out with my friends im 100% fine, no problems. Its just my family. I haven't eaten dinner or anything with my family since like, 3rd grade maybe or before that even. It is definatly a major problem in my life. And my family obviously doesn't understand that its not my fault that this is how I am, except my mom kind of. If anybody knows whats wrong with me, could you please help me. If you need anymore information, just ask me questions. Thanks.
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Tillybird
replied on October 18th, 2006
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I was absolutlely amazed when I saw this. Surprised

i have exactly the same problem.

Im 24 and this has bothered me for about 4 years. I cant rememebr what started it. At first I thought maybe it was a pet-hate that has gotten out of control.

I know exactly how you feel, the lip-smacking, slurping and worst of all of for me is the sound of teeth munching together ( the bite noise ) it makes me feel sick and I get so angry. Its only with my family though. At meal times if I absolutely have to sit with them I talk loudly so I cannot hear it and prefer it if there is music on. I have been so enraged by it at times and have had the urge to bang my cutlery on the table. This does sound so crazy but i'd feel kind of embarrased to tell my family how to eat. Crying or Very sad

i have never expressed my feelings to my family about this.....Maybe I should?? Maybe you should too, or just explain that you cannot eat with them as you cannot stand the noise.

Do you think that you cannot watch them eat now because when you see them with food you know whats coming and have a feeling of disgust??

I've thought about this at length and have come to the conclusion that its ony good table manners to not smack your lips and slurp when you eat and this obviously annoys us. There is no need for it.

I understand you totally and if you are weird then so am i!! Wink
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