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Becky
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Is This a Valid Reason to Abort?
Posted: 10-01-06 11:31am
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My (not so close) friend confessed to me
that she is nearly 18 weeks pregnant but
doesn't know who the father is. Her
boyfriend is black but she cheated on him
with a white guy.
She is now scared that the white guy is
the father and the baby will be born white
(she is white also)
she was very happy initally to be pregnant
and wanted a baby (her boyfriend and her
were trying) she come off birth control to
try for a baby with her boyfriend and
didn't use a condom with the one night
stand 
she is now saying that she is going to get
an abortion as she is scared that the baby
will come out pure white. She
.R.E.A.L.L.Y wants a baby and is upset at
wanting to have an abortion but she said
that she can just have another.
I think her reasoning is wrong and she
will regret this. What do you think?
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Nataliachick7
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Posted: 10-01-06 11:34am
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I think its pathetic to get an abortion
over skin color.
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Posted: 10-01-06 11:59am
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| nataliachick7
wrote: | | i think its pathetic to get
an abortion over skin
color. |
i think it's the fear of being caught out
rather than the skin colour itself which
is the driving force behind her wanting an
abortion. The only reason skin colour is
an issue here is because it could show her
up as a lying cheat.
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Becky
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Posted: 10-01-06 12:04pm
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| nataliachick7
wrote: | | i think its pathetic to get
an abortion over skin
color. |
purest green is correct on this. Her
boyfriend is black thats why she's scared
of the baby being pure white in case it
all blows up with her boyfriend
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Nataliachick7
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Posted: 10-01-06 12:17pm
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Yes, I can read. I still think its
pathetic. Its selfish that she is going
to abort because of her sluty one night
stand.
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nightangel73
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Posted: 10-01-06 19:22pm
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What she should do is tell the thruth to
the bf so he can leave her and he can find
a decent woman. What a promiscuous
person.
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Posted: 10-01-06 19:28pm
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| nightangel73
wrote: | | what she should do is tell
the thruth to the bf so he can leave her
and he can find a decent woman. What a
promiscuous
person. |
do you know what the word promiscuous
person means lol
i think she should do whatever she wants,
personally she should the kid what if the
black guy accepts it as his own?
Honestly your friend will be caught in a
web of lies they always blow up in your
face!!
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nightangel73
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Posted: 10-01-06 19:39pm
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| diamondsz
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do you know what the word promiscuous
person means lol
i think she should do whatever she wants,
personally she should the kid what if the
black guy accepts it as his own?
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i believe it means what in good spanish is
.P.U.T.A lol
you are right diamond the guy might accept
as it owns. I had a coworker his wife got
pregnant two times of other men and he
still forgive her and raised her health
questions children as his own. Of course
we always thought how could he be so
stupid but there you go. Hehe
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Posted: 10-01-06 20:05pm
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| nightangel73
wrote: | | diamondsz
wrote: |
do you know what the word promiscuous
person means lol
i think she should do whatever she wants,
personally she should the kid what if the
black guy accepts it as his own?
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i believe it means what in good spanish is
.P.U.T.A lol
you are right diamond the guy might accept
as it owns. I had a coworker his wife
got pregnant two times of other men and he
still forgive her and raised her health
questions children as his own. Of course
we always thought how could he be so
stupid but there you go.
Hehe |
like they say third time is a charm lol!
I think anything more than once and I
would kick my hubbys @ss out the door, not
everyone is the same I do love but enough
for him to break my trust!
Puta just means a woman who sleeps with
many men, another word used for a
prostitute lol!
When your with someone its actually
adulteress but I guess its no used anymore
kinda old fashion lol, but hey our
vocabulary changes every year.
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Posted: 10-01-06 20:24pm
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I think it would be better if such an
irresponsible twit does not become a
parent. However, she should have made the
choice to abort long ago, not waited until
almost halfway thru gestation.
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Posted: 10-01-06 20:35pm
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| stillherelosers
wrote: | | nataliachick7
wrote: | | its selfish that she is
going to abort because of her highly
availabley one night
stand. |
the only selfish person I see is you.
But your type of selfishness is ok,
hypocrit. |
hey, I have to agree with natalie. This
woman is being selfish, she is
being racist too (yes, towards her own
race, it happens). She purposly got off
birth control, and she purposly had sex in
order to become pregnant. She done f-ed
up by having a one-night-stand, and the
fetus doesn't deserve to die for that. I
think she needs to tell her boyfriend. If
they wanted a child together, then he
should be just fine raising this child.
Also, they should be married if they're
having children in my opinion. Finally,
if this dude is as big of a jerk as his
girlfriend is, and he wants her to abort
too, then fine. But, if in the end he is
just like "jeeze girl! I'm leavin! You
gave your uterus to someone else!" then
he's totally deserving to dump her. Then
it's up to her to keep the child of a man
she'll never see again, or what.
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Posted: 10-01-06 22:09pm
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I can understand why she would want to
abort - too bad she couldn't birth the
child in another state and pay a nurse to
switch her baby with a bi-racial child.
{sarcasm} I wouldn't say it's selfishness
as much as it is cowardice - if a woman
wants to get knocked up from a one-night
horizontal jog and abort for fun, then
fine. But deceiving her partner about his
son is another thing entirely.
The woman needs to tell him what happened,
and if she wants to abort to make him stay
with her, then that's her call.
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Posted: 10-02-06 02:18am
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It's her choice, she certainly wouldn't be
the first to abort because of having had
multiple partners but this is something
she should ideally have been thinking
about much earlier in her pregnancy.
Personally though I think not knowing who
the father is is a perfectly valid reason
to abort.
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nightangel73
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Posted: 10-02-06 07:12am
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| moo
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personally though I think not knowing who
the father is is a perfectly valid reason
to abort. |
why? She will know who the father if she
does paternity testing when the child is
born.
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Posted: 10-02-06 07:47am
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| nightangel73
wrote: | | moo
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personally though I think not knowing who
the father is is a perfectly valid reason
to abort. |
why? She will know who the father if
she does paternity testing when the child
is born. |
it will be very visible white+white =white
lol
brown and white comes out kinda
tanned/tannish
my kids father is very dark(filipino) my
kids are olive skinned I guess you could
say I believe malatto(spelling?) if for
white and black and yes I love mixed
babies!
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Posted: 10-02-06 12:55pm
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| nightangel73
wrote: | | moo
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personally though I think not knowing who
the father is is a perfectly valid reason
to abort. |
why? She will know who the father if she
does paternity testing when the child is
born. |
because it's a woman's right to abort for
whatever reason she choses. Not yours,
not mine so i'm not going to lie and say
that only certain reasons are valid
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Posted: 10-02-06 18:44pm
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| diamondsz
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it will be very visible white+white =white
lol
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hahahaha
| diamondsz
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my kids father is very dark(filipino) my
kids are olive skinned I guess you could
say I believe malatto(spelling?) if for
white and black and yes I love mixed
babies! |
i too love mixed babies. If I ever have
kids with my bf it will be a surprise
because he is red haired, his brother is
blond blue-eyed and his sister is totally
brunnette like me. My guess is they would
be brunettes..
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Posted: 10-02-06 18:55pm
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[quote="moo"]| nightangel73
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because it's a woman's right to abort for
whatever reason she choses. Not yours,
not mine so i'm not going to lie and say
that only certain reasons are
valid |
i agree. Either abortion is okay or it
isn't. I don't get the mentality that
says it's okay for some reasons but not
all (except for life/health of the woman).
Either a z/e/f has a right to life or
not.
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Posted: 10-03-06 07:48am
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| diamondsz
wrote: | | it will be very visible
white+white =white
lol |
lmao!! 
| diamondsz
wrote: | brown and white comes out
kinda tanned/tannish
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brown and white=mixed race hun 
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Posted: 10-04-06 22:40pm
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Thats a terrible selfish reason.
She is going to make her child pay for her
stupid actions that's sad.
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