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Q: Overreacting?
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Zanny
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I agreed with my boyfriend that we wouldn't see each other til the birth so he could save up for the baby.. And that upset me, but now I see that it's definitely the right thing to do, coz there's still quite of lot of stuff to sort out financially. So that was all good.. Until yesterday, when he mentioned that he was going away for the weekend with his friends. Last time he did that it cost him about £100 (coming to see me is £65). So instead of coming here and spending one last weekend with me before the little one arrives, or saving the money up, he's spending it on that. I'm seriously mad at him.. Do you think i'm overreacting? I feel kinda selfish.. But I don't know.. Grrrr!
Sorry, this seems like a stupid post, but I needed to vent.. Why do blokes have to be so bloody annoying
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liwikiwi
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hopefulmjz
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ThriftyGal
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Zanny
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liwikiwi
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Sophie585
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Jules
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Oooooohhhhh..I would be so so so so angry if my partner tried to pull a stunt like that!
Dump him!!!
only kidding...He does, however, deserve about 20 years on the naughty step.
Dump him!!!
only kidding...He does, however, deserve about 20 years on the naughty step.
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arcadia
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Melissa_20
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Zanny
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I told him how I felt.. And I wasn't nice about it. Hehe. He still went out, but managed to cut his spending down and it only cost him about £20, so it wasn't that bad. I've forgiven him.. He's arranged to come and see me in about 3 or 4 weeks, and it'll be cheap because his friend is driving him here. I'm happy now 
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Melissa_20
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| zanyzanny wrote: |
| i told him how I felt.. And I wasn't nice about it. Hehe. He still went out, but managed to cut his spending down and it only cost him about £20, so it wasn't that bad. I've forgiven him.. He's arranged to come and see me in about 3 or 4 weeks, and it'll be cheap because his friend is driving him here. I'm happy now |
good i'm glad you guys worked it out!
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HcoBrunette06
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Purple_Butterflies
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| zanyzanny wrote: |
| ok well after my hormonal post the other day you ladies will know that i'm a tad unstable at the moment (biggest understatement since my mum said .Hitler "wasn't a very nice man").. But now I dunno whether it's just my hormones being stupid or i'm actually right to think like this..
I agreed with my boyfriend that we wouldn't see each other til the birth so he could save up for the baby.. And that upset me, but now I see that it's definitely the right thing to do, coz there's still quite of lot of stuff to sort out financially. So that was all good.. Until yesterday, when he mentioned that he was going away for the weekend with his friends. Last time he did that it cost him about £100 (coming to see me is £65). So instead of coming here and spending one last weekend with me before the little one arrives, or saving the money up, he's spending it on that. I'm seriously mad at him.. Do you think i'm overreacting? I feel kinda selfish.. But I don't know.. Grrrr! Sorry, this seems like a stupid post, but I needed to vent.. Why do blokes have to be so bloody annoying |
aww....Your not overreacting, youor just feeling emotional, because you'll miss him. I know how you feel, nowadays I only get to see my boyfriend once a month, and after this month I wont see him till new years, maybe or ill have to wait till my birthday in february. But you have everyright to feel that way.
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