Become her friend it's easier to start off has friends. Have small talk with her, call her on the phone and talk for hours. Once this becomes comfortable then the rest will fall into place when the time is right. When you rush things thats when things become a bit nerving causing the anxiety that you are haveing. Just stay calm and go into it open mindedly. Good luck to you and I hope it all works out. P.S. Also try the e-mail thing if your able to it that is always a good way to talk to someone without haveing to be face to face.

Alright, thanks for advice.

My boyfriend and I were shy like this at first... He only asked me out 'coz his best friend pushed him ( the day before his friend found out I liked him, he tried to persuade my now-boyfriend that I did like him but he didn't believe it ) and we didn't start holding hands and stuff until like 2 weeks ago, and we've been going out for about 3 months... So you're not the only one.
We started off always talking on msn and walking home together and spending alot of time together at lunch and break ( we're still at school ) and we got really close. I think the closeness is important. And I trust him and i've told him things i've never told anyone else before. Just spend alot of time with her, get close, and eventually try asking - I know it'll be terrifying but if she likes you too then it should be okay. And maybe you could just move along slowly and it wouldn't seem so bad hope I helped and I also hope this made sense

Hey, if this girl likes you, she'll tolerate your sweaty hands. I'm over 30, my bf got sweaty hands often when we first started dating, and I couldn't care less. It's human! It tells me he's nervous, but he goes through it and I respect that. Check out his link: Mc2method.Com - click on the "overcome shyness" link .. Sound familiar? The sooner you work on going through your anxiety, the sooner you'll begin really living. Good luck!

Ya know I was under the impression that these boards were to help people and that it was made explicit that there was to be no advertising and yet this is like the 3rd time u have advertised for this website on different post. Plz stop

p.S. You just gotta go for it. Whats worse finding out she doesnt like you and moving on or never trying and always wondering?