Tryin' to Get a Gf, But My Anxiety & Stress Is Killing M Posted: 09-18-06 20:20pm
Alright, I know one girl likes me, and I
do too. But im afraid to ask her out, I
dont know why, probably cuz once I talk to
a girl I get red/sweaty. And I think if I
ask her out, I could not hold hand cuz my
hands would be teriblly sweating. Any
help ? :oops: :cry:
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littlesqueaks
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 May 2006 Posts: 296 Location: Caldwell, Idaho
Posted: 09-19-06 00:26am
Become her friend it's easier to start off
has friends. Have small talk with her,
call her on the phone and talk for hours.
Once this becomes comfortable then the
rest will fall into place when the time is
right. When you rush things thats when
things become a bit nerving causing the
anxiety that you are haveing. Just stay
calm and go into it open mindedly. Good
luck to you and I hope it all works out.
P.S. Also try the e-mail thing if your
able to it that is always a good way to
talk to someone without haveing to be face
to face.
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wadea
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jun 2006 Posts: 33
Posted: 09-20-06 16:27pm
Alright, thanks for advice.
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AngelicBunny
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Sep 2006 Posts: 3
Posted: 09-23-06 17:18pm
My boyfriend and I were shy like this at
first... He only asked me out 'coz his
best friend pushed him ( the day before
his friend found out I liked him, he tried
to persuade my now-boyfriend that I did
like him but he didn't believe it ) and we
didn't start holding hands and stuff until
like 2 weeks ago, and we've been going out
for about 3 months... So you're not the
only one.
We started off always talking on msn and
walking home together and spending alot of
time together at lunch and break ( we're
still at school ) and we got really close.
I think the closeness is important. And
I trust him and i've told him things i've
never told anyone else before. Just spend
alot of time with her, get close, and
eventually try asking - I know it'll be
terrifying but if she likes you too then
it should be okay. And maybe you could
just move along slowly and it wouldn't
seem so bad hope I helped and I
also hope this made sense
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Jess9
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Sep 2006 Posts: 1 Location: USA
Re: Gf Anxiety Posted: 09-23-06 23:50pm
Hey, if this girl likes you, she'll
tolerate your sweaty hands. I'm over
30, my bf got sweaty hands often when we
first started dating, and I couldn't care
less. It's human! It tells me he's
nervous, but he goes through it and I
respect that. Check out his link: http://www.Mc2method.Com - click on
the "overcome shyness" link .. Sound
familiar? The sooner you work on going
through your anxiety, the sooner you'll
begin really living. Good luck!
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orchidsamurai
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Sep 2006 Posts: 3
Posted: 09-24-06 18:41pm
Ya know I was under the impression that
these boards were to help people and that
it was made explicit that there was to be
no advertising and yet this is like the
3rd time u have advertised for this
website on different post. Plz stop
p.S. You just gotta go for it. Whats
worse finding out she doesnt like you and
moving on or never trying and always
wondering?
hope I helped and I
also hope this made sense 
