Btw I didnt mean the double topic post, I refreshed the page and it happened, someone can lock the other one if they like.

She got a positive test and you're still wondering?


Your girlfriend is probably pregnant. If she's bleeding, she might not be pregnant for much longer. I'm not trying to scare you, but she might be miscarrying. She needs to see a doctor, especially if she's spotting. Take her as soon as possible. I would personally go to the .E.R, but that's costly and .I'm not sure how much money you have.

She needs medical treatment, one way or another, and birth control if she's not pregnant or is miscarrying.

Shes actually on birth control as we speak, I dont know if she should stop or what, I heard spotting was normal?

If she's pregnant, she needs to stop taking the pill. A positive pregnancy test is a .V.E.R.Y good indication that she is pregnant.

And any bleeding during pregnancy, while it could be nothing, needs to be checked out by a doctor. She could very well be miscarrying, and she needs to be checked to make sure. Some women bleed very lightly when they miscarry, and others do not bleed at all.

This is your girlfriend and possibly your unborn child we're talking about. Please play it safe and get her help. Better to get it checked out and feel silly if it's nothing than to have something go wrong and feel badly because you decided not to act.

I'm not trying to be mean. I honestly want to help you and your girlfriend. Please... If you love her, take care of her and have her looked at by a medical professional.

For the past couple of weeks also we have had sex, is this bad to do so while someone is pregnant?

I just called her with these answers and im very very concerned, im only 18 and shes 16 going on 17, id rather her be pregnant and have a successful pregnancy then a misscariage and she keeps telling me its normal, she has pamphlets etc etc sayin its normal..

Well ultimately it's her body. There could very well be nothing wrong with her, and she could go on to deliver a healthy baby. If she *is* having a miscarriage, she needs medical help, but if she's refusing to be seen... There's not that much you can do about it besides try to persuade her.

Do either of your parents know that there's a possibility? Her parents might have more influence over her seeking treatment. Even if she's not miscarrying, she needs to see a doctor to have bloodwork drawn up and to be put on vitamins. Every pregnant woman needs prenatal care.

To answer your earlier question: sex is quite healthy during pregnancy, unless the doctor says otherwise. As long as you both feel like it, go for it!

Good luck and keep us posted.

Her parents dont know at all, neither do mine, were keepin it under wraps right now until she takes another test and if it comes out possitive she will tell them. While im concerned, it seems shes not and shes scared to go to the sex clinic cause parental consent is needed.

yeah, telling parents is just a small slither of responsibility you two will have to face as new parents. When you put it in perspective that for the next 18 years you are going to have to make grown up responsible choices and have another life depending on you, telling parents doesn't really seem that big. I told mine within a few weeks of finding out.

There are many clinics that won't disclose information to your parents, and that you don't need parental consent for. Also you two could go see the school nurse or counselor, who can give you information to free clinics and such. Where do you live?

Were both canadian

you don't need parental consent to go to free clinics in canada. Also health care is free. You can get the ball rolling without your parents. I set up my first appointments at the womens clinic by myself, and got a dr and everything by myself. Also she could go to the emergency room to check out the bleeding, for free, because it's canada, if she has her health card and stuff on her.

Sweet, I dunno ive been reading and hearing alot how spottin is normal, and she just started but its not alot whatsoever. If she is pregnant, I really do hope that the spottin is just a normal symptom and it goes away and everything goes extremely well, im actually really stoked about having a son or daughter, whether being 18 or not and still in high school, ive seen myself mature to a new level, I just want whats right for my gf.

Well then I think i'd try as much as possible to get her to a doctor tomorrow, don't just wait until it "goes away" I know you're trying to talk her into it already, but keep trying. Good luck.

Her and her parents are a little not so cool with each other at the moment so what I have planned is telling my mom first so if any doctor or anything asks for parental consent, my mom will do it with no problem and we wont have to wait. And another thing, she got grounded tonight for a week and she lives like a half hour walk from me so I mean were really riskin things here..Should I be extremely worried or just whenever I can get her to the doctor as soon as possible I should take up on that oppurtunity?

Ummmm I think you all just need to take the bus to the doctors .T.O.M.O.R.R.O.W (asap!!!) without your mom. Tell her tonight or early tomorrow! The bleeding could be [something] or it could be [nothing] but it's better to be safe than sorry. I understand what you're saying about the parental consent, but tanya just told you that you don't need it, so go as soon as possible. You don't want to risk something like this.

Alright thanks alot, ill call the sex clinic or even my family doctor to see if he can take her in, he would understand 100% the reason being, her parents are ridiculously strict, you have no clue, shes living in fear right now and so am I lol

Well good luck lol keep us posted...

Spotting can be normal but it does need to be ruled out by a dr, second off she will loose the baby if she continues of the birth control pill and she will need to go through testing cause she didnt get off of it asap.

Honestly not seeking a dr asap is pretty immature, I understand you guys are younger but if you be responsible/have sex then you need to deal with everything else that comes with it.

I been on the shot for a month. I been having night sicknees and using the bathroom alot. Does this mean I am pregnant?