Can Sume One Help Me?!?!?!?!!? Pls Help...... Posted: 08-20-03 13:47pm
I dont kno what exactly I should do,i lost
my virginity last tuesday ,and the guy I
lost it to told me not to tell ne one,but
yet he turned around and told his best
friend and his best friend told his sis,i
told his sister the truth,but now im not
quite sur as to what do to about him,like
should I tell him the trutha nd tell him
that I told his sister or should I just
let it go and see if sume one tells him
that I told his sister? Some one pls help
me,i really need sume advise
thanx so much
~ kelly ~
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HongKongChick
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 222 Location: Oklahoma
Posted: 08-20-03 17:42pm
Well that shows how much of a mature
gentleman that guy is! To tell u the
truth, most gentlemen and mature males do
not tell about their sex life with a
particular girl, unless they dont care
about the girl at all! That ususally
happens after the couple has broken up.
But in ur case, u two arent even dating??
So it's very likely for him to brag about
how he popped ur chery.....And yes guys
are jerks!
And just forget about him, just let it go,
the more u try to defend urself, the more
they are gonna talk about it or even add
stuff to it and before u know it, it's all
over the place, so next time u have sex
with a guy again, please know for sure u
really can bare those "talks"
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*CheerChic*15
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Aug 2003 Posts: 17 Location: Michigan
Just Ignore It All Posted: 08-24-03 13:12pm
I mean if your guy told you not to tel
anyone and he ended up telling people I
mean come on...That sounds like what most
guys would do.. Most guys are like that..
They just like to brag about it to their
friends esp if their friends are still
virgins... Things are goin to be said I
betcha because things get around
fast...(well they do here anyway) things
are goin to prolly be added...But just
defend ur self and dont listen to em...
Are u and this guy dating??? Cause I mean
if you are...Then for one he lied to ya
(thats a total no no in my book) and it
sounds like he doesnt really care about ya
if hes going to act like that.... It
sounds like he needs ta grow up a little
in my opinion..I mean its no ones
bussiness what goes on in ur sex life.. I
mean heeeeeelllo....Lol but I guess what
im saying is just dont worry about it and
hey if you wanna tell people go ahead...
Dont hold back because he said too because
it seems as if he isnt..... Just be the
mature one about this.. And next tiem you
have sex make sure its a guy you can
actually trust and who wont treat you like
this.........
