Have you ever been in a serious relationship in the past? Maybe if you haven't thats why you view women this way?

Well, if women can't be sexual objects, i'd like to hear what it is exactly i'm supposed to consider a sexual object.

Having said that, yes, they're people too, and sex is just another form of social intercourse - concentrate on the social part, and the sex will usually take care of itself. Everybody is a sexual object, it's a role of sorts, but not everybody neccessarily wants to be nothing but, or be one all the time.

You gotta hold your end up if you want to keep 'em coming back, and that usually means knowing where the sexual object stops and the person begins.

Or, do like everybody else does, and divert your sexual energy into making money: then the women who have nothing else to offer but their status as sexual objects will be attracted to you as a status object - it's the american way.

that's the dumbest thing i've ever heard in quite some time................."the old gold digger syndrome".............Give me a break hun, it goes both ways these days...................Theresa plenty of dudes out there gorgeous as hell but dumb as wood...................If you want that, cool, but once the sex is over and they start talking and then..............Your very last brain cell bursts.............Don't come complaining to us. :)

and to the original poster...............Stop jerking off.................When the time comes..........You won't be able to perform...................Women too. The only reason I can see for masterbation is to last longer when you have sex, and this would be for the very over sexed amongst us. :)

"that's the dumbest thing i've ever heard in quite some time.................'the old gold digger syndrome'".

Ah, so you are not cognizant with the theories of mssr. Freud? The protestant work ethic? The whole of american orthodoxy was based on it until we discovered instant gratification.

Otherwise, yes, wanking can be great fun, but there is more to life, and women can be diverting in other ways.

Thankfully perhaps if the human race were wired to all be do-it-yourselfers, instead of being attracted to each other for all the wrong reasons, there would be no human race.

All you gotta do is take a break, you'll be having your heart used as an ashtray in no time.

so your solution is to "stick it" to them before they can stick it to you?
Or as I over heard from a fellow female coworker......"use and .Abuse"; "take them for everything they got"...................Or flip the coin...............Male coworkers, "find a rich broad"etc etc..............

............Everyones had their heart broken, been used and treated unfairly...........And the usual knee jerk response is to say.........I'll never get married again/live together............I'll never .Ever let another "know the real me"....................I'll live secrets and lies, but .God forbid to let my guard down for a second, no way!

Sorry, bud.................We've all been there..................It's human relations.........We're all imperfect.............But if you want to be in the running.......You gotta take chances.......................

...................And "wanking can be great fun"....................Well I don't know about fun.............Stress reliever.........Yes.................

......................But i'd rather "wank" someone else and have the favour returned :wink:

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well..u said u do not appreciate much women. I think that yr problem is "why u do not appreciate women". Usually these kind of "opinions" comes from yr childhood and family. For women (in sexual relationships) has to do with father, and for men with mother. Think well, and try to specify the main reason u "hate" women. I know that u can think a thousand in a second but just try to find the "fundamental reason".
I know that all these may seem commonplace to u (all these about childhood etc) but the truth is that 90% of our problems comes from there. Just ask many "WHY" to yr self..WHY leads u to the root of problem..
-Why i do not appreciate women?
-Because a).. b).. c) etc..
Ask again WHY??
- for the a) i do not like this this and that for b) this and so on..
and again WHY
It takes time..sometimes the answer comes difficult..but at the end u will find what u r seeking..
Also u can ask for professional help..a phsycologist i think will help u better to find the root..

also when u ask WHY to yrself better be 100% honest..and admit the reality if it is not so nice. Some times it is socking but it helps because it helps u to realize some truths for yrself.
Porn magazines and tapes r not helpful, they r made to humiliate human relationship from human who cannot understand it. So if u want to understand just try to express yr sexuality in a different way..and just try to find sth more real to yr life..i think u r just disappointed from women for some reason. Porn magazines just enhance this disappointment and u just prove to yrself that all women r sluts and no-worthy.
But this way u just deprivate yr self from love and real feelings that makes a human beings happy. I know u do not believe in that idea, but it is true wanted or not. Being with another person (in general even as a friend) it is the only real thing in life
Also i would like to ask u if u know enough about women or if u r just afraid of them. Some times hate comes from fear who comes from ignorance. It is a chain.. We hate sth we are afraid of and we are afraid of it because we do not know it enough..because we have lack of informations. This is a common human tactic..in from politics (concerning global issues), to between people relationships (person to person)
Think about these things..If u r willing to help yrself u will find a way. It is enough to be honest with u. And I insist that a phsycologist's opinion will help u a lot..

Oh my god the english language is being slaughtered T_T The first poster uses NO periods, and the someone else comes along and uses millions!!!

I suggest for the OP (original poster) to go to a psychologist and work through these emotional issues regarding women.

u mean my english? r they that bad? really? what do u mean "no periods"?

A period. <-- You see the DOT at the end of my sentence? It's called a period.

This: ? is a question mark.
This: ! is an exclamation mark.
This: . is a period.
This: , is a comma.
This: : is a colon.
This: ; is a semi-colon.
This: ' is an apostrophe
This: " is a quotation mark.

These are the common marks of punctuation.
"r" is not a word, it is a letter. "Are" is the correct word. You should always capitalize the words at the beginning of a sentence. "u" is also not a word, it is a letter. "You" is the correct word.

Go get them, Eiri. I'm with you on this one.

Also, thanks for the English punctuation lesson.

if u mean just these it's fine..people use them to write faster..we r not writing an essay here..i don't think it is a big deal..and my mother language is not english..

It is important. It helps understand what you need. Grammar is exceedingly important; I will never understand this generation's obsession with typing ignorantly.

If english is not your native language it's okay; but please try as hard as you can to type it to the best of your ability.

The age if u, r, LOL, and text messaging is here, annoying as it is.