Awe.. It'll be ok... You just have to be strong and remember why your doing what your doing... You have to be the best mommy you possibly can and if not being with their daddy is going to help you be a better mommy then its ok.. And remember you have alot of support and friends here on ehealth :)

You seem to have the worst luck

your split, your miscarriage, your moms cervical cancer, the breast cancer they detected in you, all in a couple of months.


Sorry.

Oh man girl. I hope god grants you the serenity you need to get through this!!

Good luck girl!!

Sarah

Thats too bad. Well im used to hearing about this my uncle and aunt have currently split up they said at first "temporarily" but now its been almost a year next month. My uncle has moved back to my grandparents house. All I can say is try to work things out while being apart, but keep in mind you both have probably said things you didnt mean (ie I dont love you), which wont help the situation since you may get back together and then say the oppisite of what you have said (ie I love you) and the other may take it the wrong way (ie do you really mean it). But if things work out then kudos to you, if they dont then they dont. But remember you will have to leave your differences aside at least for the children's sake. Also be flexible with visiting hours for your husband they are his kids as well, and I speak of this out of experience now that my aunt and uncle are split up I only see my cousins for 1-2 hours every sunday when I go over to my grandparents house because my aunt wants them back by 6 pm. And its not like I get to see them at all I walk in the door they say hi and they go back upstairs and play on the computer. If you need someone to talk to im always here, metaphorically speaking. Feel free to pm at any time if you would like to talk.


Good luck

Beck I posted on the preggo board...

I think you guys just need some time away from each other, I think that by allowing each other some freedom you may be able to meet on terms again. Hubby is in the military so when he goes away for his 6mths postings its a breather as well I miss him so bad that when I see him its as if im starting a relationship from new.

I hope things get better, we are always here is you need to vent!!

Jess

Edit for personal attacks

Am I sensing sarcasm?? Anyone?

Oh yeah I just love having people laugh behind my back. I make all this stuff up cause I think its cool to break up with your hubby. :roll:

i have had the year from hell. It seems everything has happened at once. I have had 21 years of no drama and then get it all at once. I think I must of p-i-s-s-e-d god off big time.

Awww, you're having such a cr*appy time lately, I really hope things pick up for you. Don't feel that it's anything you've done to make these things happen; life just seems to have a nasty habit of kicking you when you're down sometimes.


Ok it's corny but "you don't get rainbows without rain" - chin up lovey. You'll be ok.

I'm sorry sweetie! Everything will turn out for the better.Just remember you have 2 beautiful children with you and they love you and i'm sure tha will help you get through all of it.Are you getting divorced or just separated for a bit?

As far as the comment you made about god. All things come in pairs. Just remember there is light at the end of the road

ha ha haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.

That's not a personal attack =)

it's weird because I start to like you one minute and then you make posts like this and it just makes me laugh because I think your full of crap. To have that many things happen in the last 2 doing it months is just pathetic and I doubt it's even true.

I think your an attention seeker and you just need to quit sharing your drama with people on the internet, so things like this can be avoided.

I'm locking this one because it's starting to get a bit personal.

Think how you would feel in the other persons shoe's.
If anyone wants to discuss the reasons for this being locked feel freee to pm me.