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Q: We've Split Up!
asked by: Becky on September 13th, 2006
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Me and my husband have split up. Although it will seem out of the blue to you guys it doesn't come as a suprise to me. We haven't been getting on for a while. We have been fighting and arguing alot and we don't communicate anymore.

I never ask him how his days has been as I genuinely have no intrest in what he has to say anymore. Its got to the stage that we are just two strangers living in a house together with our kids. The baby was a mask to our problems but now it is all come to a head.

I can't do it anymore. I can't argue and be miserable in front of my kids. Its not good for them. So I told him it can't work. He's moved back to his mothers.

The thing is I don't even feel upset. Maybe its just delayed shock. The only thing i'm terrified of is being a single mum. I'm scared I won't be able to cope. Like if the babies are crying and stuff.

He said he's still gonna take the kids but I think it will wear off and its not the same anyway.

Its a really terrifying and the future is now so uncertain.

Moral support please!
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Pooh-Bear-2000
replied on September 13th, 2006
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So sorry to hear that...I haven't reall y been around here too much lately but I do know you have had a rough past few weeks. Hope things get better for you! :sending you hugs!:
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tigresacanela24
replied on September 13th, 2006
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I'm sorry to hear that beckster. It's sad when you can't make it work. But don't worry, everything will turn out for the best and i'm sure that you'll be the world's best single mum. I'm sure that you and your husband can work out some means of support for the children between the two of you. Just remember that you need to be polite and respectful to each other for their sakes. Wishing you all the best right now and you're in my prayers.
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lil_blaze2004
replied on September 13th, 2006
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Beckster i'm sorry to hear that but coming from a newly single mom, things are so much easier now. If you need anything holla!! I'll pm you my e-mail addy.
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Tazzy D
replied on September 13th, 2006
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Well I am here.. I know if I can make it which I did. I know anyone can.. We are all here for you if you need us..... Just hollar and we will coma runnin
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~*~Jillian~*~
replied on September 13th, 2006
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Gosh girl..Your lucks just running low ..Hopefully things get better soon..

Sorry this had to happen:(
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diamondsz
replied on September 13th, 2006
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Maybe you guys just need a break beck, I know me and hubby went through something similar but things changed and yes having a another child just masks the sitiuation. All I can suggest is maybe give it a few weeks cause I know when hubby goes away (military) I miss him alot and when he comes back its like a new relationship!!!

I wish I could give you info on being a single mom but I never was jess(blaze) would be the best for that!!

Luv ya girl
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