Join Our Community!
Share
What happens during labor? What do contractions feel like? And how do I know that labor has begun? Read on to learn about birthing basics....
Signs of labor occur after 36 weeks of pregnancy. Learn about the difference between real and false contractions. Plus, we outline signs of delivery complicati...
Almost all women worry about the pain of childbirth. Preparing for childbirth includes thinking about how you'd like to cope with the pain of labor. Read on for...
Avatar
Q: Hehe...
asked by: SweetCheeki17 on January 23rd, 2004
Experienced User
Its been a while since the last time I was in here, unfortunately im not pregnant but I will be expecting sometimes next year in jan or feburary because me and my boyfriend decides it would be best to try in jan or feb. It just 4month left for him to graduate next year of the year 2005. I told him not to worry because I will have enough money in the bank by earning ssi ... And would be working. I would have enough for the baby. I told my best friend about this and still being a "brat" health forum I meant to say but I ddint want to be mean to her. I told her the surprise if anything happen to me I would chose my best friend ... To be a godmother after all and she got very happy. At least she knows what im doing, lol.


"thats life, and you will have to continue your life if anything happens, but do not end it by killing or throwing something behind."
Did you find this post useful?
|
Replies(14)
Avatar
KariM18
replied on January 23rd, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
How old r u?
Did you find this post useful?
|
Avatar
SweetCheeki17
replied on January 23rd, 2004
Experienced User
Hi Kari
17 .. Will be 18 in october.
Did you find this post useful?
|
Avatar
SweetCheeki17
replied on January 23rd, 2004
Experienced User
Kari
Why do you ask?, not trying to be mean.. Just being curious lol
Did you find this post useful?
|
Avatar
KariM18
replied on January 23rd, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
Im not trying to bash u at all im j/w why at so young your planning to get pregnant when your 18? I mean im 18, and pregnant, and I am now happy about it, but I definitly didnt plan it because I still feel so young.. And when u try to concieve, wont u still be in highschool???
Did you find this post useful?
|
Avatar
insurancegirl
replied on January 23rd, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
Arrow
Did you find this post useful?
|
Avatar
SweetCheeki17
replied on January 23rd, 2004
Experienced User
Lol
Um kari, no I wont be in high school, thats the good sign. I will be attending to college. I have a reason of having/trying to concieve next year because I feel left out between me and my fiancee, however me and my boyfriend are planning on to try to get me pregnant in jan/feb next year 2005... But then if the due date are past sept or october.. I will be 19 to give birth, just like my mother.. When she got pregnant with me at 18 and gave birth at 19. Its all weird. Lol its in the chain and everyone understood that I can break the chain in the family. I love everyone but yeah.
Did you find this post useful?
|
Avatar
KariM18
replied on January 23rd, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
Ohh I c. My mom had me at 19 too. .Got pregnant at 18.. But also things were way different back then. I guess I just cant imagine trying at 18..But if u can make it and want it then goodluck and congrats~ what do u mean u feel left out between u and your fiance? Got a little confused there.
Did you find this post useful?
|
Avatar
SweetCheeki17
replied on January 23rd, 2004
Experienced User
....kari
I meant I am deaf ( actually hearing impaired in one side "left side") and I have went through alot of harsh stuff .. Hard stuff in my life and no one in my family has been there for me but when I started staying at my boyfriend house during the weekend because we go to a different school and etcs. I went through alot of craps between me, brothers, and mom. My parent are seperated and I feel liek craps still and now im mature enough to know what I want and I have been like this ever since 13years old but um I really want to try to have a baby next year. I dont think its wrong.. Would it?
Did you find this post useful?
|
Avatar
SweetCheeki17
replied on January 23rd, 2004
Experienced User
Kari
If im not answering right away, its mean that im on my way home from school. I will be on in 30-40min. Dont worry.
Did you find this post useful?
|
Avatar
CrombieChic16
replied on January 23rd, 2004
Active User, very eHealthy
Sweetcheek,
maybe I read your post wrong, but you mentioned something about how you feel left out with your fiance, and want to bring a baby into the picture to bring you two together...I dont mean to sound harsh, but bringing a baby into a somewhat distant relationship will do nothing but push you two further away...You need to make sure your relationship with your fiance is stable and committed before you make any drastic decisions, especially involving a baby....A baby is forever so make sure you're 110% ready for one before you begin to *try*....Best of luck pursuing your goals.
Vanessa
Did you find this post useful?
|
Avatar
KariM18
replied on January 23rd, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
Thats what I was worried about vanessa.. Was that she ment thats why she wanted a baby .. And if that is the case. .Its the very wrong reason. Maybe I mis-read tho..But also u talked about all the bad things that has happened to u etc.. But a baby isnt just something to fill a gap. I just hope you really take time to plan ahead and are completely ready for a baby before u actually try to concieve. I dont want to lecture.. Its just.. Ur young, we all are and I wish I would be able to still be a teenager myself sometimes but in 5 1/2 months, I cant, and I wish that teens would take the time instead of rushing to grow up and rid themselves of their childhoods so fast by bareing a child themselves..
Did you find this post useful?
|
Avatar
insurancegirl
replied on January 23rd, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
Arrow
Did you find this post useful?
|
Avatar
babyrae
replied on January 24th, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
Plz don't try at such a young age! Im happy with my pregnancy now but I have to look at missing my prom, grad ceremony, my safe grad and my 18th birthday!!! You can never get those back so plz, cherish ur teenage life for what u have, u wont regret it!
Did you find this post useful?
|
Avatar
mommabear16
replied on January 24th, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
Not that I tried or anything but....


Im 15 (16 in two months..Haha)....And im pregnant
Did you find this post useful?
|
Quick Reply
Search