I am 26 years old. For the past 6 or 7 months I have had one small bump that looks like nothing more than a small pimple on the top of the shaft of my penis. I had a few more on the bottom of my penis but they have went away. I do shave my genital area; however, the bump that hasn't went away is far enough up my penis to where I don't shave in that area. Also, my girlfriend started with a few small bumps around her bikini area. She also shaves so this isn't something that we see as "not normal".. But here lately she has been having more bumps pop up on the insides of her butt cheeks. We have looked at pics of hpv, herpes, syphilis and none of them look like our bumps. I also have a tear underneath the head of my penis ( I am circumsized ) and it will not heal. Even with me trying to treat it and not having sex for a month. It keeps tearing even after it looks like it may be gone. Please advise...