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Q: the Same Sex!
asked by: nawtaprincess on September 11th, 2006
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Hey im 18 years old.. My boyfriend and I well everytime we do it, it seems to be the same and it's getting boring for the both of us, he stays on top for a while, then I get on top and we finish it off with doggy style. He told me that sex is getting old, not with me but just sex in general, and ive tried to spice it up like having sex in the shower, and on the bathroom sink, but still its old to him.... What can I do to like make him want me more?... I usually spend the night with him for 3 days and we only do it like once or twice I want to make it so good, that he wants it more... Ive gave him numerous about of blow jobs, tried to dress sexier... And everything.... Please dont tell me handcuffs and whip cream or any of that stuff, I mean im sure someday we will do that, but maybe just something that would make it better,, what makes a blow job better? Or whats more of a turn on during sex?.... Anything would help right about now.. I've tried anal sex,, I dont really like it.... But I want to please him what do you think I should do?
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Tylanas
replied on September 11th, 2006
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Look, having sex twice in three days is pretty good!! No, it's not nyphomania, but still, that's a good amount of sex. I think it's you who's horomones are a little bit higher than his. Next time you're together, wait, and let him initiate sexual contact. Don't be afraid to suggest "let's do it off the side of the bed" or things like that once you get going, but make him start it. If he's bored with sex, indulge in other daily activities.

If he's not always expecting it, that can also make it more exciting. So if you start visiting, and not initiating sexual contact, a) he'll know he gets to start it when he feels like it, and b) your mettings won't be totally focused on sex. C), after this has been going on for a while, you might even end up not having sex at all during one of your visits. Next time, you engage him. He'll be suprised, since you've been letting him have control the whole time!

Your relationship can be about more than just the sex, and perhaps this is a stage where you two need to focus on your out-of-bed expereinces together. Too much sex can make anyone bored, and perhaps twice in three days is just too much for him.

Is he older than you? He may be reaching a different stage of maturity than you as well. Does he have anything in his life that is stressing him out? That can also cause a loss of sex drive. Trouble in bed is often a sign of something from the outside influencing his mind and focus.
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nawtaprincess
replied on September 11th, 2006
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No he is younger than me, I took his virginty less than a year ago, so I defintley thot his hormones would be higher.... He is 17 and I am 18. Thanks for some of the tips, yeah im usually the one who starts the moves first, it's kinda hard not to, but im going to try that :-).....



eiri wrote:
look, having sex twice in three days is pretty good!! No, it's not nyphomania, but still, that's a good amount of sex. I think it's you who's horomones are a little bit higher than his. Next time you're together, wait, and let him initiate sexual contact. Don't be afraid to suggest "let's do it off the side of the bed" or things like that once you get going, but make him start it. If he's bored with sex, indulge in other daily activities.


If he's not always expecting it, that can also make it more exciting. So if you start visiting, and not initiating sexual contact, a) he'll know he gets to start it when he feels like it, and b) your mettings won't be totally focused on sex. C), after this has been going on for a while, you might even end up not having sex at all during one of your visits. Next time, you engage him. He'll be suprised, since you've been letting him have control the whole time!

Your relationship can be about more than just the sex, and perhaps this is a stage where you two need to focus on your out-of-bed expereinces together. Too much sex can make anyone bored, and perhaps twice in three days is just too much for him.

Is he older than you? He may be reaching a different stage of maturity than you as well. Does he have anything in his life that is stressing him out? That can also cause a loss of sex drive. Trouble in bed is often a sign of something from the outside influencing his mind and focus.
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Jadc
replied on September 11th, 2006
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if you want sex to be fun again and make you both crave for one another....Dont have sex for at least 3days ...The teasin here and there will make it even better for you on the 3rd day.The guy will feel it when he *cums* because over the 3days of arousel ..*easy terms* his balls will become full and erupt and the same goes for the women she will have a great feeling when shes cums.

Try that now and then it all good ;).
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