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Q: It Goes a Lil Like This......
asked by: KELLYBELLY on August 20th, 2003
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Ppl might say its not the best thing for teens to be pregnant,but really if u r,just remember how u got ur self into this mess,u might look at it differantly than other's but ur not pregnant becuz the baby wanted to be here on earth,its becuz u chose to have sex,i kno that when ppl have sex they dont think of the
"what if's" no one does! But no matter how old u r if u go threw a abortion u will regret it for the rest of ur life,and if u have the baby,u will love it with all ur heart,so just before thinking of ur self and what had happened just give it a lil bit of thought of how this baby might be and how it will look like how it will talk,if its a girl or a boy.Now after u think of all those things how can u go threw a abortion? Theres always adoption,so dont give up,keep ur head high and remeber theres other ppl out there just like u!!!!! Hope I helped ya'll,well if u want to talk some more e-mail me or im me : koolkrazykelly2( thats my aol sn)
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lhileman
replied on August 20th, 2003
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Adoption Or Abortion
Hi kelly, my name is lisa, and I agree 100% with what you said. I am hoping to adopt in the near future. I just want people to realize everybody makes mistakes, it matters how you deal with them, and what you learn from it. I wish more people felt like us, but unfortunately, they don't. Well, I hope you have a good evening .


Smile lisa
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Torn
replied on August 20th, 2003
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Re: It Goes a Lil Like This......
Hey kelly, I agree somewhat with what you're saying. All options should be considered when having a baby. But, not all women can have their baby for someone else. There are other things to consider outside of the happiness of some wanting parents.

There are thousands of parentless children out there waiting to be adopted. I say we deal with the problems we already have, before adding to them.

No, abortion isn't always the right answer. But, having a child isn't the only answer.
-k.
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HongKongChick
replied on August 20th, 2003
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Torn, I agree!

Though abortion is a freedom, but it is not to be abused like some women out there who keep having unprotected sex and keep getting preg, and keep getting abortions, they are the ones that make those pro-life activists hate abortions so much, and it's such a shame too!

True, there are alot of ppl who want to adopt, but arent there enough starving orphans in the world already?

I think when the girl/woman is not mature enough, and not financially, physically, and mentally ready for a baby or to be a mother, she does not need to bring an innocent child into this cruel world to be starved or looked down on.
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