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Q: Need to Vent =(
asked by: ERICA1121 on January 22nd, 2004
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I am so stressed all I do is fight with my sister. Well, I have 2 older sisters heather is 27 and has 2 boys 8 and 10 and she had her 1st at 17. She has been supporting me since I told her I was preg. Angie is 25 and she used to be so cool and laid back and ever since she got with this new guy I thinks he's like brainwashed her. She acts like such a health forum to me. All she says is ur dumb, ur ruining ur life, dont come to me when u need diapers, I dont want no part of u screwin ur life up oh yeah and then she tells me i'm a sad story. All she does is criticize everyone if they aren't doing what she likes. I dont even know who she is anymore. She has so much beef with everyone she comes in contact with. Also, my bf's family is happy for us and they are wonderful and I feel so much better now about our situation becuase we have them by our side and can talk about it without bein uncomfortable. It's great! But my family on the other hand they are european. Albanian if any1 knows what that is and they are now so disgusted with me becuz I didn't have an abortion. They dont even want to talk to me. I still haven't told my dad either. Tooooooooo scared lol! I wish my mom was still here. She died in 2001 at the young age of 42 and she was american. I'm haf american, half albanian . Ok i'll end this now girls. Sorry its so long I understand if noone wants to post lol. I love my family so much but they r puttin me through too much drama when all I want is to be happy.
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smith8500
replied on January 22nd, 2004
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Erica,
i'm sorry things are so hard. I am also sorry about the loss of your mother. I am glad that your bf's family supports the two of ya'll and your sister does. As for the other sister, I guess just give her time, I know it hurts though and tell your dad. I'm sure he'll understand in time. We're all here for you sweetie!
Love,
chanda
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ERICA1121
replied on January 22nd, 2004
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Thanks! Yeah but I told my sis like in dec and she is very stubborn and hardheaded lol and she talks about how important family is and all but she acts like she doesnt care about me .Yeah I guess once the baby is here, she'll act differently towards me but who knows she might end up even resenting my child. My grandma treated me and my sisters that way cuz my ma had us when my grandma didnt want her to so she always treated us badly. Thanks for your support though. ~ erica.
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allusivepond
replied on January 23rd, 2004
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Sorry that ur family is not being supportive of u and the decisions u make, and as for u sis she needs a swift kick up the butt for treating u this way noone deserves that.

When u say family do u mean ur father or ur mothers side, if it is ur fathers is there any family on ur mothers side that would help u thru this difficult time or vice versa.

I hope it all gets bette we are all here if u need to continue venting

from someone who cant wait to have a jelly bean all of their own
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babyrae
replied on January 23rd, 2004
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I'm so sorry to hear about ur family and ur mom **hugs**. I hope they understand someday. Have u told ur sister how her saying all this is making u feel? She has no right to tell u ur ruining ur life cuz ur not! A lot of people think that way but all ur doin is maturing earlier on in life and taking care of a living, breathing, human being who needs ur love more than anything. Ur sis should come to know that.
Tell ur father soon tho. The more u wait, the harder it is, trust me. He may be rough in the end but it is ur father, he cant get mad at u for long.. He should understand soon. Im glad to hear ur boyfriends parents are there for u Smile thats good! Good luck in telling ur dad and hope everythings okay wit u and ur sis!
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