You know, I lost 2 really good friends because of that.

I was like 16 and they were like "you don't hang out any more" and "you don't sleep over anymore" but it was like come on, grow up.

Well, I chose my boyfriend over them because they were being childish about the situation. And me and my fiance are .S.T.I.L.L together.

Let's just say about 3 months later, one of them became pregnant and stopped "hanging out" but that was ok. They didn't mind that. It was only because I had chose my boyfriend that they were mad. incredibly hypocrites!!

You'd be surprised how quickly your "friends" will turn on you when a man gets involved!!!

Sarah

Oh girls im glad I am not the only ones...I moved 30/35 minutes north of my old town..And my friends always get mad when I dont come down to see them ..Yet they .N.E.V.E.R come to see me...Im like meet me half way..Or I will call them and they not answer ..Its alright..But if I dont answer when they call ...Its the end of the world...I am with jonathan very little because he is at college most of the day..And so I rarely have time to spend with my friends..Which doesnt bother me because I have more important things to do..I have family..And with my friends still being young ..They want to party and do drugs ..And im like hello I cant..But anyways...I know exactly how you guys feel..And it sucks..Because sometimes I just wish I could talk..And they are always to health forum..

Yeah, the first time this happend it was a girl named martha... In middle school I always had more friends then her.... She always was kind of abusive to her friends.. She would like hit us as a joke but it hurt!!! Anyways, she told me to go to this new school. She said I would love it..And oh did I mention my boyfriend was in the high school?!? ( same boyfriend I have had for over 3 years ) anyways, I went there and she totally allienated me! She told all these people I was the biggest health forum ever!And all this other mean stuff. It made her more popular!!! (lol) well anyways, I had a horrible year and I depended on my boyfriend to make me happy and hes always been there for me. So in the long run. Everyone got to know me and they were like wow she is so nice blah blah blah. And now most of them are my friends and oh what happend? Everyone hates martha now because they found out about the whole lie she said about me... What comes around goes around.


You would think you could trust your bestfriends... But you cant trust anyone. Its really depressing and sad.

:)

Yeah ..I find myself trusting jonathan more than I have trusted anyone in my entire life..Well that is other than my family..Because they have always been truthful and backed me up..

Yeah, I cant live without jake... I honestly dont know what I would do without him! I tell him everything even my problems he helps more then my friends do. Boy do I love my fiance<3 ah im so inlove with him<3 this is why I love my man.

Jillian, I so agree:)

Hey .I'm in love too!!! Lol

yeah the same things happened to me. Ever since I became pregnant I couldnt find the time or energy to hang out with my mates and we hardly ever speak anymore, which I consider a good thing as shes messed her life up even with all the advice ive given her. Shes turned her backs on everyone whose ever looked out for her and shes now on drugs and going out with a 47 year old man! Shes surprised me alot and shes started health forum about me because im still with my boyfriend (williams daddy) mainly because hes her ex aswell and shes now mates with someone who got her arrested and made life hell for her in secondary school. But owell, things happen

Im still best friends with the same girl I have been for.... 8 years.

She got married recently to a man I despise, because hes a habitual liar and a complete fool. (in one of his stories he claimed he was doing a
air conditioner work with his dad at mel gibsons house and had an adult conversation with him about the filming industry the year lethal weopon cam out (he was 5 I guess he didnt research his dates first lol)

anyway.. I do my best to avoid him. I wont go to their place when hes home. Im not going to let him get in the way of our friendship. She adores .Rob tho.

Ive never let a man come between a friend and i. Never will.