When I first started having sex, I did not get any orgasims...Not even clitoral. I could get myself off no prob but when it came to the guy, I found that I have to have that connection with the person. My boyfriend and I have been friends for a while, and we ended up hooking up casually a few times before we were "offical", and it was not stimulating at all...But now that we are together, and have made that special bond, sex is f-n amazing!!!!!

Clitoral stimulation is easy to do, and you're right...It is hard to get another one right after...It all depends on the situation I find. Sometimes once is all I can get, while other times, I can get off twice without any effort...

Plus...If all you are thinking during sex is "i wanna get another orgasm" and "stressing" about it...Then your mind set is not in the right place which will definitely prevent it from happening

My girlfriend is the same she can rarely get an orgasm through intercourse.

Here is some advice

this is what we do.

Do your usual thing romp away and when the guy is ready or near ready ask to hold back but stay inside you (female) and tell the female to start playing with her clit until she near orgasm and then male should start romping away and you will both cum togehter ...Something along them lines

we both are happy doing it this way hopefully you would be.

Best position for this is for the guy to be on top of the women and his legs on the out side so the female's are on the inside ...Its easier for my girlfriend to reach the orgasm and hopefully same for you

hope fully this helps :p