i have heard the same thing, but my man and I both dont have that problem

your 'hole' doesn't stay big. Lol. In fact, you have control of that with kegel exercises (you can do those right now too) to strengthen the muscles there.

Sex is still enjoyable. It isn't as if a baby comes out and leaves you with some gaping cavernous area down there. A baby comes back and your body heals itself. Sex will hurt for awhile but it feels the same as ever. ;)

Lol the grand canyon! Mel, your vagina is all muscle and it does go back normal like ingi said with kegels ....Even without the excercise in time it heals itself...Lol I like the way you described the vagina as a "hole" ..Lollllll

Omg thats the funniest thing ever :o:))!! God help thoese people who have had 10 pounders :)) hehe!!

You know.. As a matter of fact, mine was smaller after .Jacob was born. Rob said it felt like I was a virgin again.

He said something funny the other day.... (since it has to do with the topic at hand lol) rob and I were talking about a hootchie friend of ours who has 4 kids from 4 dads and is prego with number 5.. And I was like, "can you imagine what its like having sex with her after so many kids?" and he was like, "probably like throwing a hot dog down a hallway." I laughed my ass off. Maybe it wasnt that funny to other people, or maybe it was the way he said it but I laughed so hard I almost peed myself. I think it mostly had to do with the fact that I actually pictured him throwing a hot dog down a hallway.

i would never wanna be a friend fo yours if this is the way you talk about your friends....On a public forum on top of it.

well thats pretty much what the guy said it was like after having sex with a woman who has had a child.

I didn't use the word hole,he did! Lol so don't make fun! : )

rude comments arent appreciated. Try being nice for once.

Lol mel how dare you think I have a loose hole!!! Hahahhaahhhahahaha that's hilarious! Maybe if they didn't stitch you back up I could see it being loose, but it's actually tighter than before!!

My man has a hard time not coming to quick cuz he says it's tooo tight!! I don't mind the tightness at all ya heeeaarrrddd!!!!

I wanna have 3 kids, depending on the sexes, so I hope I don't get loose after 3!!!

Sarah

lol I second that. Rob gets so maaaaaaad sometimes because if we havent done it for a few days, the combination of being too tight and not getting any for a few makes him finish after like, 5 minutes if he doesnt slow down and make it stop. Poor boy lol.

sorry rain....I didnt mean to upset you....But why dont you try not talking about you friends that way....Its very hypocritical...Thats all...Have a good day:)

Im sorry its not being hypocrytical.

Im not saying one thing and doing another.

Her and I have a tight friendship and she knows shes a hootch. I've told her to her face she must be like a slip and slide.

She thinks its funny.

She in return makes fun of my big fat ass. We laugh about it. Thats what friends do. You'd know that if you had any.

I wasnt out to amuse you, .Emma.

lmao! No no no! Lol I just didn't know cause I have never had a kid.See it has some benefite besides the kid right? Lol

wow..Im so sorry I didnt realize being called a "prostitute" was funny...But I know you dont mind when people point out that you have a fat a$$...Anyhoo...Its all good ...

Lmao I .K.N.O.W I have a fat ass so its all good.

She .K.N.O.W.S she a hootch.

Friends poke fun at each other.

I like my fat ass thank you. And proud to wear a size 14. So get over it.

Not defensive.. I would have gone off on a tangent and gotten rude if I was being defensive... Which I didnt... I was merely explaining things.

hey! I wear a size 13/14! Lol I have wide hips. . .

i have since I hit puberty. Im a serious hourglass girl. Before I had kids I was like, 38-30-38 lol now im like 1000-4000-2000

Lmao,shut up!!! Lol I have some pretty good curvage going on but I need to start working out so I don't lose it lol