What's she done to you? Vent!!!

Not that i'm nosy or anything... :lol:

Oh backstabbing definitely sucks.

What happened, cha-cha?

My sister backstabbed me recently.
We haven't spoken in a week.
It's pretty sad, actually.
She's a really awful girl.
But hey, blood doesn't make family.

She threatend my finace' with her boyfriend... And started talking caca about me... Um made a huge sceen at a public place crying her eyes out because I had my finance' next to me... She is crazy and a huge drama queen.. Its really sad. Most people dont like her and I tried to be friends with her so she could have someone to talk to... But she goes behind my back threatening the people who mean the most to me... And threating me and trying to make everyone hate me and feel bad for her. The funny thing is... Everyone is mad at her now and doesnt feel bad for her. Oh well...

Drama queens these days ::roll::

ever hear the expression" take out the trash" leave her alone if she makes you so miserable..Ditch her and live your life and find yourself some decent friends.

I dont think calling the girl trash and ignoring her for all eternity is going to solve anything. It might actually make things worse.

U need to be upfront with her. Tell her how messed up it was to do stuff like that and how much it hurt you. You also need to tell her if she feels that this is the proper way to treat a friend then maybe the two of you should go your seperate ways. Treat others as u wish to be treated. Maybe get to the root of the problem. Maybe deep down shes jealous that u have such a wonderful relationship with your husband and hers is rocky. U never know. No it doesnt justify her actions, but it does give reason.

Talk to her. Its the only thing you can do. She may not be acting like a friend right now, but that doesnt give you a right to do the same. Dont stoop to her level, .Rachel. Your totally above that.

A friendship relies on trust as does a relationship. If you can't trust that she's not talking caca about you, than how can you have a friendship?

I'd drop her like a used tampon girl.

Sarah

I say anyone who brings you down should be thrown out.

My sister of all people was talking mad caca about me.
She's younger than .I am. Which is still no excuse.

She got mad at me because .I wouldn't give her a ride 1 block away to her friend's house when .I was already in bed. Lol. She slammed doors, things fell off the wall, she was screaming, got in my face, called me a fat ugly health forum, told me .I was a prostitute for being pregnant [hmm last time .I checked, getting pregnant by your boyfriend of 2 years isn't exactly being a prostitute, lol]. Hmmm then she got so pissed at me, she screaming at the top of her lungs ".doing it homicide you, health forum. I'll doing it homicide you!" ...... Scary, eh? Lol. Thennn she posted a super ridiculously mean bulletin on myspace about me. Myspace of all places. I'll paste it.

"i will never
doing it look @ you the same way again.
You are a health forum.
I think of you as not only much less of a sister,
but the shlttlest friend a sister could have too.
Thanks for always being a f*ckup and never being a good role model for me.
You were never a doing it worker or lover, and I don't think you ever will be. That job won't last and neither will this little "family" of yours. You've taught me not to trust any word you say and you taught me never to follow in your footsteps.
You treat everyone like caca and i'm quite sick and tired of it.
You ought to move out and get your own place like we all want you too.

I don't give a caca if this hurts your feelings,
you hurt mine my whole life.
You've never treated me like a person.

Rot in hel."


...Woooo! Lol.
She's been calling me a prostitute more &more as the weeks have gone by.
&.She's really rude to me. So. I told her that if she didn't think my
"little family" would work out.. Then she wouldn't be a part of it. Ever.
&.I haven't spoken to her in mmm... A little over a week.

I don't need that in my life, ya know?
Blood doesn't make family.

So oh well! Lol.

Sorry, just had to vent a little.

Yep she should be thrown out like yesterdays trash! You dont need people who make trouble and insult and bring nothing positive in your life...Get rid of her...

im sorry but if I were you I would beat the sh*t out of her...She is the one with no respect..Talking to someone she is suppose to love..Like that...If my family ever knew of my brother talking to me like that ..He would be black and blue...Which your family might be different than mine....She needs to grow up and clean her mouth out..


You guys are sister...You two need to love one another..And I know im not Dr.Phil but one day you guys will regret fighting..Two weeks before my mom got killed in a wreck I cussed her and told her I hated her and eventhough I said my sorrys and we were cool...I still think about it and regret it..So if I were you ..Just be the bigger person and say sorry and talk to her about it..Because you need to have that bond with your sister..Because one day she wont be there and you will wish you had her there..


But its your life and you need to do what you think is right or what will make yourself happy...

**sniff** **sniff** something stinks!

Time to change the bag and bring it out to the curb where it belongs!

.L.M.A.O

i know it's nice to be close with your family but sometimes real life just doesn't work like that. There is a big divide in my family and believe me, we are so much better off not having to deal with that trash. Sometimes, people do things that are unforgiveable. My grandfather, who was the worst perpetrator, died a few years back and I can honestly say I have no regrets about cutting him out of my life. He was a nasty piece of work.

Exactly.

Some things really are just unforgivable.

I'm not saying we'll never make up or anything.
But .I definitely don't forgive &forget that easily.

I have absolutely no reason to apologize to her,
it's up to .H.E.R to be the bigger person &apologize to me.
I did no wrong to her. If she wants to come to me &talk about it,
.I'll listen most definitely. But my wounds don't heal that fast.
I don't hold a grudge, but she has to know that kind of behavior
is absolutely unacceptable. You know?

Sure, she's my sister. But then again,
sisters do not treat eachother the way .I've been treated.

The end!