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Q: Dated 8 Months, She Wants Space...
asked by: jeg779 on September 5th, 2006
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So , we dated for 8 months, at about the 3 month mark we took some space, and then a month later got back to gether and things where wonderous for both parties. She was in love, I was in love. . And we did that for a couple of months, things were great and we were talking marriage one day, and planning our lives out together... Then one day, she just says I need a break, I want to take a break. And then the next day I visited her it turned in to its over. And I still have not gotten a reason why... I asked her mother and she said you were just smoothering her.. Well okay, i'll back off, no big deal... So now we just reached day 10 of our break, and i've been trying my hardest to let go, and just leave her. I can't yet. And also, I have been trying to give her, her space and not talk to her. Yet, she confronts me, and texts me. But then the convo's are very distant on her side. But she is the one making the effort to talk to me. And today, we talked about my future, my career, and she said 'oh, well good luck' ... Is she implying that its over for good? Or what can I do say? I've read/am reading books on separation, and stuff. They all say give her space and work your problems out.. Which I am doing, I am just worried she won't be there when I return. . . Is this a risk I have to take, well not take, just overcome, because its there no matter what.
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pinksalter
replied on September 6th, 2006
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I wish it was easy this dating stuff!

Maybe she is scared of the commitment? Sometimes people kind of back off when they get scared, my sister is like this. If a guy gets serious she starts to back off, or maybe you have been spending too much time together. I would never say to anyone just forget about them as it just doesn`t work like that. Only you yourself knows if she is worth the wait. Your still in contact which is a good sign, its not fair of her to keep contacting you if she is being so distant with you.

Its hard to move on and im certainly not in any position to say whats right or wrong as i`m in a situation myself. Follow your heart thats what I always say.
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