Joined: 01 Feb 2005 Posts: 1759 Location: Tennessee, USA
Why Am I Feeling This Way!! Err Posted: 09-05-06 00:21am
So im a bit confused about a couple of
things...And its stressing me outtt!!
Long story ..So if you dont like reading
then exit out..Lol
i have been really craving to have another
child..I know that there is alot of
reasons not to and I keep telling myself
no no no...But its so hard ...I am about
to start school in october ..And the rule
book says if you become pregnant ..You
have to have a doctors note saying that
you can continue on with the
schooling..Because there are fumes and
things that can cause harm to the baby
...But its very unlikely..Which is the
first reason I say no..The second reason
is ...Jonathan graduates in march and
thats when we are buying our
house..--reason three ...I was pregnant
with jace in my junior year of h/s and I
never had the time to enjoy the pregnancy
..With school and all...So with my next I
want to be able to relax and enjoy..
I really need to wait ..And my plans were
to wait till jace was in
kindergarden..That would give me and
jonathan enough time to get out college
and be in good paying stable jobs..Which
would also give me the time to enjoy my
pregnancy and take time off after the
birth of our second child...
So yeah I think I should wait ..But I just
wish these thoughts would go away...Haha I
think getting on here and seeing these
pregnant pictures and all my friends being
pregnant is making me want to be again!!
Err it sucks!
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Becky
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Joined: 01 Jan 2006 Posts: 6225 Location: London, England
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Posted: 09-05-06 06:57am
You should go with what your heart tells
you. There is never a good time to have a
baby. Our angel was not planned but she
came into our life much wanted. Sadly she
was not meant to stay with us and I know I
will never have another baby as the pain
is too much but you should follow your
dream.
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~*~Jillian~*~
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Joined: 01 Feb 2005 Posts: 1759 Location: Tennessee, USA
Posted: 09-05-06 16:05pm
First off I have to say sorry once again
for your lose..But I also do know that
children arent always planned ..But I
always said I would never have a child out
of marriage..Which ended up happening
anyways..And since my life has been soo
much better..Jace is the best thing that
had happened to me in a lonnngg time..But
to my point...Lol I know in my heart that
right now isnt the time..I need to get
everything stable in my life and get into
our new house..So that I will have that
off time to enjoy my pregnancy ..Because
with my last ..I never had that time..I
was always in school ...And never had time
to relax and enjoy...And I really really
want that this time..But like I said ..I
am going to wait..But its just the
thoughts that are killing me ..I wish they
would go away..
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tigresacanela24
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Joined: 11 Nov 2005 Posts: 5261 Location: Treat your children well, eventually they'll choose your nursing home.
Posted: 09-06-06 08:24am
Jillian, I think it's pretty normal. It
must just be a woman thing. Chuy is the
most precious thing in my life right now.
I was thinking about having another, i'm
not too crazy about the idea of being
pregnant again but I really want a
daughter. I even looked into adoption (
not seriously yet but definitely trying to
get a little info). I think once you
have one and you see how sweet and
wonderful your child is you just want to
keep having that feeling, that baby smell
and those tender moments...It's sort of
like a drug! Lol!
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~*~Jillian~*~
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Joined: 01 Feb 2005 Posts: 1759 Location: Tennessee, USA
Posted: 09-06-06 19:31pm
Yeah ...That what I want ...A little
girl..Lol
but knowing my luck im going to have
another boy-not saying I wouldnt love it
as much..Cause I would..But I would really
enjoy having another jillian running
around..Hehe
but yeah its hard not to get pregnant when
these thoughts are running through my
head..But im just going to keep reminding
myself that I have school to get
through..And stuff like that..Plus im
still young and me and jonathan still like
going out and having fun..And with jace
its easy because he is now sleeping
through the night and things like that..
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 7892 Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
Posted: 09-06-06 19:40pm
Little girls super yo!!! Hahahaha...My
sweet angel.
I'm not gonna lie, I wanted a boy bad.
But I got over it real quick. My luck
i'll have all girls and they'll be 10 time
worse than their mommy!!! I better buckle
up!! Hahahaha..I hope I haave at least 1
boy because my man wants to have a
.William .Baron the 5th. (he's the 4th)
my .Nonnie always tole me to put an asprin
in between your knee's and keep it there
girl! To bad I never listen!!
Sarah
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tigresacanela24
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Joined: 11 Nov 2005 Posts: 5261 Location: Treat your children well, eventually they'll choose your nursing home.
Posted: 09-08-06 08:08am
babymajic0506
wrote:
little girls super yo!!!
Hahahaha...My sweet angel.
I'm not gonna lie, I wanted a boy bad.
But I got over it real quick. My luck
i'll have all girls and they'll be 10 time
worse than their mommy!!! I better
buckle up!! Hahahaha..I hope I haave at
least 1 boy because my man wants to have a
.William .Baron the 5th. (he's the 4th)
my .Nonnie always tole me to put an asprin
in between your knee's and keep it there
girl! To bad I never listen!!
Sarah
sarah, you're a nut!! Lol! I've never
heard that one before....When I read it I
just started laughing...An aspirin, huh?
Make it a little hard to.....Um, walk,
wouldn't it? Teehee!
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jgtc06
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Joined: 16 Jun 2006 Posts: 156 Location: Olympia,Washington
Posted: 09-08-06 20:16pm
I just had my son 2 weeks ago and I am
having the urge to get pregnant again. I
am not sure why at all cause my husband
and I have both desided to wait at least 2
years before having another one. I am
thinking it might just be hormones but I
am really wanting another one. But I have
the same thing you do. I have many
reasons not to have one quite yet.
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HcoBrunette06
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Joined: 06 Dec 2005 Posts: 8005 Location: Missouri, United States
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Posted: 09-09-06 09:59am
Oh boy lol
god jillian you're such a cow :p
i had a dream that you called me last
night lol I got to hear your country voice
again ahah :(
