Joined: 01 Feb 2005 Posts: 1759 Location: Tennessee, USA
Why Am I Feeling This Way!! Err Posted: 09-05-06 00:19am
So im a bit confused about a couple of
things...And its stressing me outtt!!
Long story ..So if you dont like reading
then exit out..Lol
i have been really craving to have another
child..I know that there is alot of
reasons not to and I keep telling myself
no no no...But its so hard ...I am about
to start school in october ..And the rule
book says if you become pregnant ..You
have to have a doctors note saying that
you can continue on with the
schooling..Because there are fumes and
things that can cause harm to the baby
...But its very unlikely..Which is the
first reason I say no..The second reason
is ...Jonathan graduates in march and
thats when we are buying our
house..--reason three ...I was pregnant
with jace in my junior year of h/s and I
never had the time to enjoy the pregnancy
..With school and all...So with my next I
want to be able to relax and enjoy..
I really need to wait ..And my plans were
to wait till jace was in
kindergarden..That would give me and
jonathan enough time to get out college
and be in good paying stable jobs..Which
would also give me the time to enjoy my
pregnancy and take time off after the
birth of our second child...
So yeah I think I should wait ..But I just
wish these thoughts would go away...Haha I
think getting on here and seeing these
pregnant pictures and all my friends being
pregnant is making me want to be again!!
Err it sucks!
I know exactly how you feel but I look at
it this way.
I loved being pregnant, it's the greatest
thing in the world! I would love to have
tons of kids but I think my ideal number
is just 2. I'd get pregnant right now if
it wasn't for me being almost to where I
want to be, ive almost reached my goal and
if I get pregnant now i'll be back to
where I started.
Point is, were both young and have a lot
of years to get pregnant again!! Don't
rush it. Your time will come again!
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~*~Jillian~*~
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2005 Posts: 1759 Location: Tennessee, USA
Posted: 09-05-06 15:58pm
Yeah ..Well atleast im not the only one..I
think the part I miss the most is my belly
and waiting for the birth...When I had
jace it was the best thing..I didnt have
any problem and his birth was so smooth
and easy..But you and me are kind of the
same with the whole goal thing..Because it
would push me back if I did get
pregnant..And I surely dont want that
right now..But im going to wait..But like
I said I just wish I could get over these
thoughts of wanting to get pregnant
again..
Try to keep reminding yourself how much
more you will get to enjoy your next
pregnancy if you wait a bit... Maybe that
will help, maybe not.
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Eyes Wide Shut
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 7892 Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
Posted: 09-05-06 16:04pm
Lol...It's contagious!!!!!!!!!!!
Hahahha...Of course when people around are
pregnant, it make you remember when you
were and you get that uuuurrrgggeee!!
But wait, like you said, you'll be able to
relax and enjoy it. I got to stay home
after my 6th month and I loooved it. Of
course I gained a million pounds cuz I was
home!!
Sarah
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~*~Jillian~*~
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2005 Posts: 1759 Location: Tennessee, USA
Posted: 09-05-06 19:31pm
Haha yeah I ate alot when I was pregnant
with jace although I only gained like 25
pounds during my whole pregnancy..I hope
that I dont gain alot with my
second..Cause my aunt it always telling me
...That its going to be two times the work
to get the weight off the second time
around...Shew that scares me..But its all
worth it in the end!
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Jules
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Joined: 19 Aug 2006 Posts: 3786 Location: Merrie Englande, UK
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Posted: 09-06-06 01:58am
I can totally sympathise because I am
sooooo broody at the moment - even though
I know it's not the best time to have
another baby. I know if I wait a year or
so then we will be better off financially
and my son will be a bit more able to
understand the new situation but ohhhhhhh
I want another baby so bad sometimes. I
just keep telling myself it's only
hormones and I am in control of
myself...Just wish I could believe it!
