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Q: What Do I Do?!
asked by: deebaby621 on September 4th, 2006
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Me & my boyfriend have been together for almost 7 months. At the beginning of our relationship we both told eachother how many people we'd been with. Well, just last night.. I fessed up and told my boyfriend that I had lied to him about how many guys i'd been with [ I said 5 at first - it was really 12 ] . He also fessed up after I did, and admitted that he'd been with more girls than he had initially said. [ 14 turned into "around the 20 mark" ]

i'm such a hypocrite for this, because I lied to him as well.. But it really hurt me. What if he's lied about other things as well? I love him very much.. But I have a hard time letting go of things.. And I know this is part of the past and I shouldn't be worried with it because we're happy with eachother but like I said, I have a hard time letting things go. Should I feel bad/upset/partially mad? Or should I just say screw it?

I'm hurting inside..
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ccris123
replied on September 4th, 2006
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Trust
It's important for you all to trust each other or it will never work. You feel bad because he lied, but then again, you lied too. It's never good to discuss numbers in a relationship because it always hurts someone in the end. Everyone wants to feel like the first, even if they're not. Also, take this into consideration. Maybe he was hurt by your number, and as a spite thing, blurted out something he thought would hurt you as bad as you hurt him. Trust.
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jayh
replied on October 23rd, 2009
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way do you want to know about the past loves if you realy care about each other you are new to each an cant change what has been done in the past life is to short to live in the past
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