There is a medical difference between
desire and ability to perform sexual
intercourse. In other words, it is best
to distinguish first if a man DOESN’T
WANT sexual relations with women or
CAN’T have sex with women. If a man
desires but can’t have sex with a woman,
then he might be experiencing erectile
dysfunction. Viagra might help here. But
if a man doesn’t want to have sex with
women then it can be expected that he
won’t be able to perform sex with women.
In that case, he might be experiencing a
lack of any sexual desire (frigidity) or
he has sexual interest other than women
– for example: men (homosexuality).
According to your description (husband
having no interest/ability to have sex
with you, enjoying and masturbating during
gay-porn, avoiding any discussion with you
about it), it seems that your husband has
some kind of sexual dysfunction that can
be defined only by a psychiatrist. You can
try to convince him to go together with
you to a psychiatrist or another mental
health professional to address the issue.
Homosexuality is not considered a sexual
dysfunction (according to WHO-definitions,
World Health Organization) but it
doesn’t seem likely you will accept such
a husband.
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