My wife has asked me to post a message on
here and I think it is only fair I respect
her wishes. On friday night around
1.30am she started having contractions.
We called an ambulance and she was rushed
to hospital as she was only 21 weeks and 5
days pregnant.
When we got there they called someone to
examine her but it was too late, within 10
minutes of arriving she pushed out our
tiny baby daughter.
She didn't make a sound as she had already
passed away. As you can imagine we are
distraught with grief. She weighs 1 lb
1oz.
We have named her angel as this is what
she will be. A tiny beautiful angel
looking down on us from heaven. We have
a few photos of her but I do not feel
right posting them on a public forum as
they are our private memories.
My wife is still in hospital as there was
a few complications. The doctors are
trying to determine the cause of death as
just eariler in the morning rebecca had
felt her kicking around.
We are planning to make funeral
arrangments even though legally they
aren't required. I ask of you if you can
please send some kind thoughts our way in
this difficult time.
Kind regards, neil
husband of rebecca (username beckster06)
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Replies(3)
BlinkyBillreplied on October 3rd, 2006
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
My prayers and love go out to you and
rebecca at this sad, sad time.
Support each other and love each other.
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Lilypadreplied on October 17th, 2006
Extremely EHEALTHy
I am so sorry for you both. I lost my
baby last year at 19 weeks 4 days, a
little boy, we named him joseph. Hardest
thing I have ever gone thru truly. My
heart goes out to you both. After some
time my husband and I chose to get
matching tatoos to honor our baby. That
may not be your thing but for us it was
nice.
After time passes it will get a little
easier. You'll never forget your angel
but your heart will heal some. I am
pregnant again now due in a month and have
been fearful my whole pregnancy that
something would go wrong. So far so good
but ill feel so much better when I have
her in my arms, we are having a girl this
time.
Good luck and god bless.
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wireloverreplied on November 3rd, 2006
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
I am very sorry for your loss my heart
goes out to the both of you.