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Q: Our Baby Was Still Born
asked by: daddy_neil on September 3rd, 2006
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My wife has asked me to post a message on here and I think it is only fair I respect her wishes. On friday night around 1.30am she started having contractions. We called an ambulance and she was rushed to hospital as she was only 21 weeks and 5 days pregnant.


When we got there they called someone to examine her but it was too late, within 10 minutes of arriving she pushed out our tiny baby daughter.


She didn't make a sound as she had already passed away. As you can imagine we are distraught with grief. She weighs 1 lb 1oz.


We have named her angel as this is what she will be. A tiny beautiful angel looking down on us from heaven. We have a few photos of her but I do not feel right posting them on a public forum as they are our private memories.


My wife is still in hospital as there was a few complications. The doctors are trying to determine the cause of death as just eariler in the morning rebecca had felt her kicking around.


We are planning to make funeral arrangments even though legally they aren't required. I ask of you if you can please send some kind thoughts our way in this difficult time.


Kind regards, neil

husband of rebecca (username beckster06)
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ANGELOS MAMA replied on September 3rd, 2006
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Im so sorry to hear that.
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michelle1981 replied on September 3rd, 2006
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Oh no!!! I'm so sorry for your loss!!! Please tell .Becky i'm praying for the both of you!
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Sophie585 replied on September 3rd, 2006
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I'm so sorry for your loss, and i'm sure this must come as a terrible shock. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Love, sophie
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ThriftyGal replied on September 3rd, 2006
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Oh no. This is too sad. I'm so sorry beckster, I hope you and the family pull through alright.
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Zanny replied on September 3rd, 2006
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Oh my god, i'm so sorry.. I'm thinking of you all at this sad time =(
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~*~Jillian~*~ replied on September 3rd, 2006
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Very sad to hear..I couldnt imagine the pain your family is going through..Its rough but im sure you guys can pull together as a family and make it through... I will keep you all in my prayers...And let beckster know im sorry to hear about this horrible news...She is the sweetest thing and I wish I could take her pain away...

God bless
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smoothiesRyummy replied on September 4th, 2006
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I'm so, so very sorry for your family's loss. I know nothing any of us can post will be able to lessen your grief. I'm just praying for your daughter's soul, and for you guys to be able to make it through this okay.
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diamondsz replied on September 4th, 2006
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I hope thing go better with time at the moment i'm somewhat speechless.
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BabyGirlsMami replied on September 4th, 2006
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Im so sorry beck, I hope you and your family are okay. I cant imagine how hard this is for you but if you need me I am here. I love you hun
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Melissa_20 replied on September 5th, 2006
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Sorry to hear about your loss hun. . .I can't imagine how you must be feeling now. . .So I hope everything gets better for you.You will get through this! Best wishes to you and hubby!
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jaime_elms replied on September 5th, 2006
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Sorry to hear about ur loss, my thoughts are with u and ur family at this terrible time. I know nothing any1 says will stop the hurt. Im really sorry, I dont really know what to say :(
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