We all have different levels of libido - both men and women with high libido's may need to have sex more often just in order not be thinking about all the time - it sort of starts crowding out other thoughts.

Men and women tend to have different priorities, reflecting evolutionary developments - men have generally evolved to spread as much semen as possible - i.E., men who have sex a lot tend to have more offspring that they passed this trait onto, while women more typically seek resources to increase the probability of raising reproductively successful offspring - i.E., quality over quantity.

I wouldn't feel too bad about helping him out if the relationship is important to you, sacrifices have to be made in any relationship, unless it's actually causing you physical discomfort or damage - try fantasizing, or porn to see if you can gear your libido up, there are worse problems in life than having sex too often.

At the same time, communication is probobly the single most important factor in a successful relationship, I think frequency of intercourse would have to take second place there, so if you are fearing for the stability of your relationship, it's the communication factor i'd be looking at.

My ex and i, for example, were well matched libido wise: we both liked it at least once a day, although she often wanted at times inconvenient to me, when I was in the middle of something else, but we didn't communicate well (or at all) in other areas, which eventually spilled over into the sexual department, and that (communication, or lack thereof, not sex, although it was a factor) is what eventually tanked the relationship.

I am five months pregnant right now but he like comes home from work and touches me telling me he loves me and telling me how he thought about me all day and what he wants to do to me, which is hot and kinky but then when it comes down to it he can go forever it seems and im just like baby please... and I acctually will feel bad if i cant please my man so ofcourse I give in cause he is used to the first months we were together that we would make love in the morning night sometimes wake up at 4 in the morning wanting to be close and we were like always drawn into each other sexually then and like if he would move at night I would grab him and attack him which then he liked and he just asked me the other day why I dont attack him anymore.. a question I do not know myself... but I just feel wierd cause if he gets turned on by me all the sudden he will kiss me and my neck and it turns me on but then the baby will kick and I lose everything not meaning to though lol =) so If I was you try and find a new position or look up kinky toys.. or find out something that he never done or heard about and do it to him, cause if you switch it on him and want it all the time then he wont.. that is what I found out, maybe accasionally but you know if you say I love you alot they soon wait for you to say it and wont say it first.. its kinda like that, always grab him and touch him alot and he will soon feel like he gets alot of attention and not craving any more..

hahahahaha...this is a funny subject. i think that if a guy gets too much sex he doesn't appreciate it and doesn't pursue it. i'm all for giving him some, but i am not going to give him all he wants, for 3 reasons: 1) if he gets all he wants, then i end up being disrespected; 2) the more he gets it, the less he is focused on making ME happy; and 3) honestly, i don't like doing it more than 2 or 3 times a week. i really enjoy it about that much but beyond that it's just a contest to see how many times "he" can get it from me and i'm not participating in that.

y'all tell me if i'm wrong. i don't "withhold" sex from him, but i'm not just going to give it up any time he wants either...i love him and am readily available to him as long as it's a 2-way street and he's willing to put all the energy forth to make sure we BOTH have a good time.

ladies, it is your body and you do have a choice. chances are you're not going to keep having sex 8x a week for a long period of time. if you are, you like it a lot more than i do!

jasmine

Jasmine, we need more girls like you!!

Way to stand up for your principles!!

-Peter

Sex is an important part of a relationship but it should never be forced!!!!!