Abortion will not affect future fertility unless you have severe complications, which are nowadays.. Did you know that when a woman has a miscarriage, they use the same suction and dilation that abortion does? Yet you don't see people telling the woman that she will never have another child, or that she will be infertile, they tell her to try again when she feels ready.

An aboriton is safe when done in a reputable clinic! You can also get put to sleep for an abortion, or have iv sedation which will make the procedure painless.

Http://www.Gynpages.Com

this is a list of reputable clinics, their websites are listed, and you can see how much they charge. They also have info about iv sedation or asleep anesthesia, and if the clinic offers it.

The first step is realizing you are not ready for parenthood. You say you've just landed your dream job and are a college senior - a baby would throw a monkey wrench into all your plans, no matter how well you would try and budget your time. You'll be handling the full workload in your final year of college, and it's a big enough struggle as it is without having a screaming baby to come home to who will distract you when you study, take away from time needed to work on assignments, and keep you awake at all hours of the night, regardless of any exams you may have. Babies don't care what you need to do in school - they're selfish little beasts! It's all about them and they'll scream until they get the attention they want.

As carifairy said, abortion does not affect your fertility or make it any more difficult to conceive in the future - honestly, childbirth does more damage to a woman's body than abortion. They show you the abortion video to try and talk you out of your decision and yank your heart strings, but do bear in mind that fetuses do not feel pain until the third trimester, and abortions are not carried out during that time unless the mother's life is in danger or the fetus is severely deformed or won't live. So it would not be the equivalent of ripping a fully-functioning human person to pieces - and i'm not saying this from the pro-life/pro-choice perspective - I say it from the biological perspective.

In any case, I wish you luck with whatever decision you make.

Could you tell me how to choose a doctor?

What state are you in??

All the clinics

on

http://www.Gynpages.Com
are highly reccomended, but if you tell me where you live I can find out!

Did you go to an actual abortion cinic to see the video? Or to a crisis pregnancy center?? Those are not abortion clinics....

I went to actual abortion clinic. They told me that abortion is very dangerous. They also told me about the chance of me getting breast cancer, and how regret i'll be after I had it done. They told me that women who had it done will end up their relationship as soon as 3 months. How they have hard time of being around children, and how the expectation date and the day that they had an abortion will always trigger them of what they've done. Before, I went back there for the ultrasound, I was so sure that i'm going to have an abortion. I was planning to get it done by tomorrow, but now i'm scared. I wanna get it done by tomorrow because it's a long weekend, and bf just got a job outside of the city. If I can it get it done tomorrow, he'll be able to take care of for a longer time. I think that i'm still gonna have an abortion anyway since I really can't handle of having baby right now, but I really am so scared of the choice i'm making.

Netgrl, people at these clinics will tell you that you'll get breast cancer in an attempt to scare you out of your decision - numerous studies have been done that prove abortion does not cause any kind of cancer. The most you could get from an abortion is an infection, which you would be given antibiotics to prevent post-procedure anyway.

Definitely find yourself another doctor - the one you've gone to see sounds like a complete fundie who cares more about some little ball of flesh than about your life and your feelings.

I had my abortion almost 6years ago and i'm still with my partner - yes some relationshps may break down but they can if you have a baby too. If you know it's the right decision for you then you are unlikely to regret it, maybe have some counselling.

You need to be careful of what clinic you go to.
There are clinic that often offer free pregnancy test and counseling for abortion. However, the catch is

"in their zeal to stop women from having abortions, anti-abortion activists have set up "counseling centers" in hundreds of communities around the country. Far from true counseling, these centers are designed to misinform and intimidate women — some will go to any lengths necessary to dissuade women from ending their pregnancies. " (planned parenthood)

to be assure of a confidential and supportive service, check for a local planned parenthood.

It does sound like you went to a "fake" abortion clinic, and that they were in fact just a fundamentalist front trying to keep women pregnant and in the house.

You went to a fake abortion clinic....

Please go to an aboriton clinic on the website I gave you, okay?

If you cannot find one near you, I will help.

The american cancer society says abortion does not cause breast cancer, do you not think they would know?

I am sorry you got a lot of bad info, but you did not go to the correct place.

I work in an baortion clinic, and I also help women find real abortion clinics!

There are so many fake clinics around, and I have to help women find real clinics.

They probably showed you an inaccurate video!! You can be alseep during an abortion, so you would feel no pain. Many pro lifers say abortion hurts, but we have anesthesia nowadays, so it doesn't have to.

If you pm me what state or city you are in, I can help you. If you are in nc or sc, I can help you if you need a ride.

Thank you for all the support. I never knew anything about fake clinics before. I didn't even know that they exist. Thank you so much for the information. Now, I feel better about the situation. I really want those fake clinics to be closed down. They tried to scared me a lot. They made me feel so guilty of wanting to have an abortion. I don't know if there is a way to warn women about the clinic I went to. I really don't want anyone to go there and have that type of experience I have when all they really need is support and true information.

First choice pregnancy service
860 e sahara ave # 1
las vegas, nv 89104-3032

this is where you called? It is a crisis pregnancy center, they try and talk women out of abortion, and yes they can do that =( it is not right, but nothing can be done about it.

They scare a lot of women with wrong info!

Here are the best places to call..
Http://www.Birthc ontrolcarecenter.Com/
go to the site =) there one fee covers everything, and they will put you to sleep =) I have had young women say that they liked this place.

Http://www.Drramos.Com/

another one..

Http://www.Sum mitcenters.Com/index_nv.Htm

this is where I got it from
http://www.Gynp ages.Com/acol/nevada.Html

This is a list of all the fake clinics!!

There are many! These do not perform abortion, they only give scare tactics to prevent abortion.
Http://www.Lifecall. Org/cpc/nv.Html
cpc of carson city
222 e. Washington st.
Carson city, nv 89702
775-885-1700

crisis pregnancy center
320 n maine st
fallon nv 89406-2804
775-423-4357

cpc of las vegas
2915 w.Charleston blvd suite 1
las vegas, nv 89104
702-366-0764
email: cpc@netxs.Ne

catholic community services
po box 1926
las vegas, nv 89125
702-385-2662

lifeline pregnancy center
las vegas, nv
702-871-6585

first choice pregnancy center
41 n. Highway 160, suite 6
pahrump, nv
702-751-2229

casa de vida
1290 mill st
reno, nv 89501
702.329.1070

crisis pregnancy center
200 brinkby ave
reno, nv 89509
702-826-1999
email: email@reno cpc.Org

1st way pregnancy center
50 west fourth street, suite 100
winnemucca, nv 89445
775-625-2229

community preg. Ctr. Of yerington
307 broadway ave
yerington, nv 89447
702-463-1022

Wow. I never knew that there are lots of them before. I felt so trapped before I posted here, but now I feel so much better. I think i'm gonna go with the birthcontrol care center. I think i'm gonna get it done next saturday. I felt so sorry that I went to the wrong place, and be given a wrong information. I really don't want any women go to those places, and be given wrong information like me. I'm so glad that I posted my problem here. Now, I really feel much much better about my decision. Thank you so much.

I am glad we can help!

They are called 'crisis pregnancy centers', and they are usually listed under "abortion" services/alternatives.Counseling.

They are prolifers who will say anything to stop you from actually having an abortion.