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Q: How to You Seperate Child Sex Abuse From Adult Sex?
asked by: StillAlive on August 31st, 2006
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Can anybody help me with that one?
I love sex now but I have flashbacks and I want them to stop.
I am in therapy now....Just wanna have total great sex without the thoughts.
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pauly boy
replied on September 1st, 2006
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Hiya,
Right as I only know really nothing about you,do you prefer to talk privat?
Please get back to me.
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Melissa_20
replied on September 1st, 2006
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Re: How to You Seperate Child Sex Abuse From Adult Sex?
stillalive wrote:
can anybody help me with that one?

I love sex now but I have flashbacks and I want them to stop.

I am in therapy now....Just wanna have total great sex without the thoughts.
it may be that you could have been abused as a child and you repressed those memories and they are coming back now.It's a good thing you got into therapy because it is a hard thing to go through.

Paul, you don't have to know her to answer the question
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StillAlive
replied on September 2nd, 2006
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Hmm
I remember alot of it....The therapy was to help let it go and gain some self esteem and trust and self worth etc.

The therapist says my body remembers and will shut down which I have noticed it does.


As for pauly...Not sure about him he seems to have an answer to everything yet to nothing...Lol
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sandyallen
replied on September 2nd, 2006
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Have you tried .E.M.D.R(eye movement desensitization and reprocessing) it is done generally by a psychologist, not a psychyiatrist and is done either by knee tappping or finger movement and it is kind of like a hypnosis but not really, it takes you back to the negative plsce and time and it has worked god on some people that have been sexually abused, anyway you go back there and it allows you to release the negative feelings, it has even worked on people with phobias, post war syndrome peple and a lot of other situations, you might do some research on it, it has helped me and I was raped and I have sent others there and it has helped the too and I am not trying to sell it to you but you might want to researchit.
All the best!
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