I just have a question.. I don't wanna
hurt nayone's feelings, or offend
someone...
.. But, I recently just found out one of
my best friend's is bisexual. I have
nothing against gay, or any choices, but
when i'm around her, sometimes I get the
feeling that she's attracted to me. If I
were hanging out with a guy I wouldn't
have this feeling, but just because she's
a girl, somehow I have a feeling like
that. Is there reasoning behind this.
-- this hasn't changed her and my
friendship at all, i'm just curious why,
if there's a chance these men might be
attracted to me, i' just making thing sup
in my mind with this woman.
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slims
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 5
Posted: 09-13-06 21:20pm
Maybe thats b/c u dont see her as one of
the girls... Since u know she likes
girl... Dah.. And at times it feels like
ur around a guy :roll:
anyways... Im sure u like guys but ur not
attracted to every guy u see so u shouldnt
assume b/c some one is gay/bi they're
attracted to everyone... Come on they're
gay/bi not desperate (no offense)
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Spirit
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2006 Posts: 387 Location: Canada
Posted: 09-14-06 08:31am
I always thought the
opposite......................Most of my
interactions with gays and bi's have been
work related ie casual
friendships/acquaintances.................
.............
.......................And when they
.Didn't hit on me, I thought
.....................What the hecks wrong
with me??? :)
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Posted: 09-15-06 11:41am
spirit
wrote:
i always thought the
opposite......................Most of my
interactions with gays and bi's have been
work related ie casual
friendships/acquaintances.................
.............
.......................And when they
.Didn't hit on me, I thought
.....................What the hecks wrong
with me???
:)
lmao!!!
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jenn_smithson
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Nov 2004 Posts: 808 Location: Texas
Re: Just a Little Curious Posted: 09-15-06 15:41pm
sometimesiwonder
wrote:
i just have a question.. I
don't wanna hurt nayone's feelings, or
offend someone...
.. But, I recently just found out one of
my best friend's is bisexual. I have
nothing against gay, or any choices, but
when i'm around her, sometimes I get the
feeling that she's attracted to me. If I
were hanging out with a guy I wouldn't
have this feeling, but just because she's
a girl, somehow I have a feeling like
that. Is there reasoning behind this.
-- this hasn't changed her and my
friendship at all, i'm just curious why,
if there's a chance these men might be
attracted to me, i' just making thing sup
in my mind with this
woman.
maybe your relationship
is so close that you're both giving and
receiving flirtatious signals. I am
friends with many gay, bi, and straight
people but my gay guy friends are always
hugging me, kissing me, touching me,
joking with me, flirting with me, and I
return all of those things. I love all
of them but all of the flirtatious
behavior is never going to go anywhere
because they would never want a sexual
relationship with me as I would not want a
sexual relationship with them.
It could just be the way the two of you
are relating to one another.
