Miscarriage Has Screwed Up My Day to Day Life Posted: 08-31-06 12:04pm
I just posted on the pregnancy forum, and
was told I should come here for support.
I really just wanted to vent, about 3
months ago, I miscarried. I'm only 18, so
I don't know whether I would've kept it,
or given it up for adoption, but I feel
like I was robbed of a choice. I was very
early, and I had just honestly found out I
was pregnant, and then it felt like
seconds later I found out I wasn't
anymore. I feel like that first child's
going to be an empty gap forever, idk how
osmething so early can make such a huge
impact, and I feel like I should be less
upset.
Ever since, i've been decently upset,
easily made cry, and my eating patterns
have been waaaaaaaaay off, which I just
noticed. I feel like i'm going crazy...
I just had a pregnancy scare, which wasn't
much of a scare, but then I was honestly
relieved when my period came, idk what the
hell's goign on with my mind...
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sandyallen
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Posted: 08-31-06 12:24pm
I posted over there for you and I will
post here for you too. I had 2
miscarriages and I realize what they do to
you! Your hormones are still bouncing
around. You need time to greeve and then
time to tell yourself that things will be
okay, sometimes things happen and we never
know the reason why. It is somewhat
normal to miscarry your 1st pregnancy and
I am very sorry for what happened!
You are in my thoughts!
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Re: Miscarriage Has Screwed Up My Day to Day Life Posted: 09-07-06 13:58pm
I know what you are going though. I am 20
yrs old and have recently also had a
miscarriage and believe me it is one of
the hardest things I have ever been
though. It feels as though everyone else
in my life has blown it off and it bothers
no one else but me. Honestly I dont even
think they realize that it still bothers
me. But it does especially since the day
after my miscarriage I found out my sister
was pregnate. So everyday I have to hear
about her and everything she is going
though its as though that is all I hear is
pregnancy all day. Just know you are not
alone and if you need to talk my addy is
te
xascutie_2004@yahoo.Com
:cry: I have had a miscarriage about six
months ago and I am I am still trying to
conceive but still nothing I pray everyday
that I get pregnant now I am taking ovulex
in hopes it works my heart goes out I
understand
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It's the Hardest Thing Ever! Posted: 09-26-06 13:00pm
I just recently had a miscarriage @ 8
weeks. I am soooo devastated!!! Its not
like I was trying to have this
baby(although I did little to prevent it),
but I would have loved it all the same.
I had just found out a week ago that I was
pregnant and then a little over a week
later I lost it. I just feel so
depressed, I loved my baby in just that
little time and I am so sad. I just
don't want to do anything anymore. Does
it get better??? I know everyhting
happens for a reason, but I just don't
know why it had to happen to me! I would
have been a good mom. Why????
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Myssjones Posted: 09-26-06 13:51pm
I am so sorry for both of your losses, I
do realize how difficult it is and for
anyone else that has had a miscarriage,
yes things will get better, I feel.
Although it has been several years since
my miscarriage, you do not forget but you
learn that it is not your fault and you
realize that you must move on. I did and
I ended up having two wonderful children
that are now grown and are on their own
and are doing great, even though I realize
they cannot replace what was lost.
Everything takes time. My thoughts are
with you!
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Re: Myssjones Posted: 10-03-06 10:05am
sandyallen
wrote:
you do not forget but you
learn that it is not your fault and you
realize that you must move on.........
Even though I realize they cannot replace
what was
lost.
this is all so true. It takes time to
heal from something so tragic. I have
lost two and not a day goes by that I
don't think about them. You think of
what could have been. Everyone has
thier own way of mourning. You need to
find what works for you. It could be
talking about it, or writing about it or
even drawing. Find something that works
for you and your healing will begin. The
day you find out your pregnant is the day
you start your bond with your unborn. So
it does'nt matter how early in pregnancy
it was, it is always hard to deal with.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
