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Q: Im 17 And I Need Help
asked by: Sweetheart18 on August 31st, 2006
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I need some help here, me and my boyfriend always fight and when I bring something up like the girl he is cheating on me with, and when I say her name he gets so pissed off and grabbed me and trows me on the bed and pins me down and watching me cry, I tell him he is hurting me and e just laughs at me... Everynight on msn he blames me for everything, I am 4 weeks and fives days pregnant. And he is not always there for me and he always wants sex when I dun want it than he makes me feel bad jsut so I will have sex with him... One day when we went out with a bunch of friend we were fighting and I walked away from him and he totally grabbed me so hard and pushed me agaisnt the wall and told me I was doing it health forum, and he mad me look so stupid in front of my friends... I dun know if this is abuse but I really need help and need to know what to do about this cause I get really scared sometimes.. Someone please help me please
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ANGELOS MAMA replied on August 31st, 2006
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Does he know your pregnant?
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Sweetheart18 replied on August 31st, 2006
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Yea
He does now, so I dun know what to do about it, I told him many times that I hate when he grabs me or stuff like that, and I told him it not healthy for me or the baby.. What should I do?
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pauly boy replied on August 31st, 2006
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Get rid now sort it use your head get rid,you will only have more greif in the future,can you live somewhere else?Do you really want his baby? Do you want to spend all your life a punch bag?Do you really,really want this mans love and baby?Honestly think and do not be to long doing it,in my opinion get shut of him and all that belongs to him...Do it,you will be happy in the future and you will meet a good man.
Sorry but hes a god dammed little thug.In the uk hed be a chav.
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ANGELOS MAMA replied on August 31st, 2006
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You needa get out.When you leave him he'll realize what he lost.Keep me updated.
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sandyallen replied on September 1st, 2006
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Do you have family you can go to? If not, go to social services and explain the situation and they should be able to put you up in a shelter. He is no-good, you can do better, you will end up with a disease or dead and he could hurt or kill your baby, he is not worth nothing, why are you with him? Get away from there and him!
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pauly boy replied on September 1st, 2006
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Sweetheart
Where are you? Are you ok?
We all worry for girls in your position,come and update us...
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babydance143 replied on February 8th, 2007
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Sorry you are going through this! Yes your boyfriend has anger issues, that he needs to work on. You need to leave him for a while, because he can hurt you and your baby! I agree with the ^^ that if you leave for a while he will realize that he is hurting you and your baby. Hope everything is ok! Good luck, please keep us posted.
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Auzzie_Wanting_To_Help replied on February 12th, 2007
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Hey! I agree with all of the replies above but its not us that can make a decision for you..... You have to be the one that wants to leave. I really hope that things have improved for you and your babies sake! Let us know how you are!

Love,

.Mel
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change is good replied on February 14th, 2007
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Please get away from him as fast as you can. Yes it is abuse and eventually he will hurt you and/or the baby. Please leave him. I know what I am talking about.
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