[qupte]because you are choosing not to
have children to continue your lifestyle.
Having children makes the single life non
existent.[/quote]
what do you mean having kids makes single
life nonexistant? Haven't you ever heard
of single parents? I still don't
understand why you think the cfers are
selfish - because we choose not to make
the world a worse place and make more
people to suck up the dwindling resources?
I suppose if you want to see the downfall
of the human race come faster, then the cf
would be selfish for not contributing to
the plan. I'm not attacking you,
stillherelosers...Just still sort of
scratching my head at your post.
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if it is selfish
to have a child then it is selfish for you
to be alive!!!
Are you suggesting that every pregnant
woman get an abortion, thats nowhere near
pro-choice that f**king extremist
thinking!
Are you going to tell me that love is a
selfish act,bringing up a child with your
value/moral is selfish, I think not.
Honestly if you dont wanty kids great but
for people who do dont breathe down there
necks for wanting children.
If love is a want then all of you who are
with someone have just shown that you are
selfish when I so strongly believe in
choice and that a pregnancy is based on
choice for a variety of reasons, if a
woman did not want a child the she has a
choice of what to do with it.
Some of you are
hypocrites |
it may not be selfish to have a child
emotionally (and in a few cases,
financially, when welfare is not
involved), but it is biologically,
especially now that people choose to defy
nature with things like ivf. Infertility
is natural birth control, and since people
have chosen to mess around with that, we
get women spawning premature
franken-litters who have all sorts of
birth defects. Then we also get women who
make ten kids the old-fashioned way who
have more than enough to make up for those
who choose not to make the world suck even
more. It's disgusting - these women must
be on some good meds to handle such a
workload. But i'm sure doctors aren't
complaining about all the thousands they
receive for ivf.
Actually, I find it funny that people
continue to have kids - they are
contributing to the downfall of their own
race and they either are oblivious to it
or they don't care.
Also, there's a difference between wanting
kids and wanting them for the right
reasons. There's a handful of good
parents out there, but they are greatly
outnumbered by stupid parents who don't
know the first thing about childcare or
who want kids for the wrong reasons (i.E.,
because it's what adults do, I want to
keep my marriage intact, I want a free
little slave, etc.). These are the people
who shouldn't be having kids.
Wanting certain things isn't selfish.
Love is a human necessity in my opinion,
but children are not. There are way too
many people having kids who can't even
support them, and then these kids end up
living crappy lives, get neglected, or get
abused. None of you can say that child
abuse doesn't exist. But since children
are the world of tomorrow, it's okay to
have them and beat them, right? Who cares
how kids get treated, just as long as they
get born. {sarcasm}