|maybe is just a baby wrote:|
|me and my boyfriend, who I also love and plan on getting married in a couple years, thought about anal for a while, and we decided we've done everything else, and that we'd give it a shot, we used lots of lube, but it hurt so bad that I didn't want him to stick in in all the way. I personally didn't enjoy it, but he really like it for how little we did, so if you up for the pain and making your guy happy go for it, everything is worth a shot!! :lol:|
|a numbing agent will ease initial discomfort, vagisil has the same active ingredient as anal-eze, so ought to work just as well - it numbs but not to the point that you can't feel anything, and it wears off aftera while - you do need to be aware of any great pain, but if you've taken it slowly, are well lubricated and relaxed, a mild discomfort or pressure is the most you should feel, which should subside after a while.
Not good if you do it before a bm I hear, can cause an impacted bm which is like being constipated I hear.
As for the anal orgasm, or "assgasm", some women report it, some can't even orgasm without anal stimulation - the primary locus of the female orgasm is the clitoral ganglia, but any peripheral ganglia drawn into the act will diffuse the orgasmic spasm, and lead to a perception of greater intensity - the sphincter and lower rectum is well supplied with ganglia, as is the perineum and these are in close proximity to the clitoral ganglia.
|i used to hate anal but I did it for my boyfriend because on a occasion he liked to do it. Then I discovered that playing with myself during anal makes it quite enjoyable for me. That might be something you want to try. It also keeps you from focusing on his penis going inside where it really isnt meant to and you dont tighten the muscles as much (helps with the pain)|