I have been in a relationship for 10
years. I have never been sexually active
with anyone but him. My body has changed
because of 3 c-sections and being
overweight. Very insecure with myself.
The last time we were intimate was on july
20th when we had sexual intercourse. Then
on august 2, we had oral sex. On the week
of august 7th, he complained about burning
sensations and pus coming out of his
penis. We went and checked into planned
parenthood for clamydia/gonohrea. Before
we left they gave him doxycyclin. They
did not give me anything. A week later
the test results came back - he is
positive, mine came back negative.
Question: how come nothing happened to me?
And he says he hasn't been with anyone
but me, so where did the clamydia come
from. He has cheated on me, and I do not
know how far he went with his affairs. I
did mess around, but as insecure as I am
with my body, I have never been sexually
active with anyone other than him. Help!
He keeps saying I gave it to
him.............
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Moo
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Posted: 08-29-06 11:31am
If you're negative then you're lucky he's
not infected you but it's obviously came
from him.
Chlamydia is passed on though sexual
contact or contact with infected
semen/vaginal fluid and it doesn't
necessarily have any immediate symptoms.
Unfortunately he caught that chlamydia
from sexual contact with someone else.
Protect yourself until it's cleared up
(it's advised not to have sex until
treatment has been finished)
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jetuho
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Joined: 29 Aug 2006 Posts: 2 Location: northwest
But......... Posted: 08-29-06 14:34pm
I have not kissed my husband of 10 years
in a long time, but I have kissed my
friend several times. I do know he was
not seeing anyone because his wife has
passed away 2 years ago, and I just know
him like that. A childhood sweetheart.
My question is - how come my partner keeps
blaming me - is there any other way
clamydia can be caught? He told me his
sister had similar issues going on at her
home, and he just started hanging out
there again. I have been cleared by the
dr as having no symptoms or any evidence
of clamydia. My partner accused me of
already having taken doxicylin to cure
clamydia. I know nothing of the disease
let alone the cures or procedures of
treatment.
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pauly boy
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Joined: 28 Aug 2006 Posts: 85 Location: florida
Sorry But Posted: 08-29-06 14:35pm
Hes been with a unclean woman.
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kissofangel20
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Posted: 08-29-06 17:35pm
He is just trying to lay it on you because
he has been caught and good.
Lol....Girl get it...He cheated on you !!!
There is no way you gave it to him when
you don't have it. Don't let him play
this mind game on you tell him you want to
know who it was he was with and then you
need to decide if you want to stay with a
man who cheated on you and then tried to
lay it at your feet cause he got an std
and got caught.
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Birch
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Posted: 08-29-06 18:06pm
Gonorhhea can lay dormant without symptoms
for quite a long while. From my
understanding, clamydia, does not.
This man has clearly been involved with
another person who was infected with these
std's. In what capacity, and for how
long, and who with...Well, those are jobs
for private detectives.
P.S. He is laying the blame on you b/c
he is being manipulative. Do not let his
manipulations fog your eyes from the
truth.
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Moo
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Re: But......... Posted: 08-30-06 05:07am
jetuho
wrote:
i my question is - how come
my partner keeps blaming me - is there any
other way clamydia can be caught?
you cannot catch clamydia through kissing,
it's only caught through sexual contact or
contact with infected semen/vaginal
fluid.
Chlamydia can also lay dormant with no
symptoms for around three years but i'm
sorry he has obviously cheated on you to
have caught and sti. The treatment is a
course of antibiotics but it can have
further complications if it hasn't been
detected soon enough (but that's his
problem not yours).
I'm sorry but he's trying to blame you as
he's been caught out but please don't try
and explain it as another way to catch it
- it's a sexually transmitted infection
which means you don't just "pick it up" -
it's passed through sexual contact.
You've done nothing wrong but your husband
has, not least by cheating but then by
trying to blame you!
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pauly boy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Aug 2006 Posts: 85 Location: florida
Cheating Lying Rat Posted: 08-31-06 18:32pm
Just another one im afraid?
Kick him into touch.
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ccris123
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Sep 2006 Posts: 58 Location: Kentucky
Cheating Posted: 09-04-06 23:16pm
It's usually the accuser who does the
cheating. He's trying to make himself
feel better about his trifling ways by
blaming you. Tell him to quit hiring
hookers and his jewels wouldn't be broken.
