Miscarying For Second Time Need Advice Posted: 08-27-06 11:17am
:cry: :?: I am 26 and have been married
to my lovely husband for 1 year. We have
been trying for a baby for the past year.
2 months ago I fell pregnant but we
miscarried on the 5th week. Then we
almost immediately tried to fall pregnant
again, on the 16/8/06 I found out I was
pregnant, all was going well until the 6th
week. I started spotting on the 25/8/06
and its progressively getting worse. I
had a scan but they couldnt see anything
so im guessing I am miscarrying. I would
be greatful if there is anyone who has
been through what I am going through and
can offer me some reasurrance and advise
on how long to wait till we try again.
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Little T Posted: 08-27-06 12:37pm
1st of all welcome! Iam sorry to hear
about your losses! I am sorry that we had
to meet in a situation like this as I too
had two miscarrigas(sp), I am sorry but my
spelling just is not what it used to be.
It is horrible to go through that and I
too went through them fast also but on one
of them we were using a spermicide condom
and I was on the pill I guess that was
wrong for me but the spermicide condom is
more what caused the m/c. I also had to
had two have abortions one was do to
abuse, being kicked in the stomach and the
fetus never progressed and never even
looked like a fetus should and another was
due to a uti a long time ago which I am
sure that they have improved on them by
now, the same situation, the fetus never
progressed and would have never had a
brain so I about gave up on having kids
and then was blessed with two perfect
children who are now grown and are now on
their own and are doing great! Some times
things happen that we never know why,
sometimes we do not give ourselves and our
bodies time enough to heal, no matter what
we are here for you. Someday the time
will be right for you and it will be your
turn.
Allthe best!
