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Q: What Does Cum Look And Feel Like??help!!
asked by: blackrose on August 27th, 2006
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I used to be sexually active but after reading magazine articles and that...I start to think that I dont think i've ever really orgasm or cum!! Do all women have to cum?? There was a time where I had tried masturbating by clitoral stimulation and I had the urge to pee so I stopped. I tried again another time but kept going...Then a thin liquid came out...Im afraid this might be pee and not cum...I want to know how do they (cum) feel and look like..Should it be a bit thick?? White??

I dont think i've ever reached the "big o" as its known but i've had the feeling good thing going on...Im abit worried.
I've also got a 2yrs old daughter and eversince they birth i've lost interest in sex...I think im too loose or something...Does pelvic floor exercises really help?? I dont think I can ever cum or close to it.

They say it feels a little tingly thing going on when u have an orgasm..I dont think i've ever been there. Once, I was on top of my bf position and had a lot of clitoral stimulation going on..Suddenly I had the same urge to pee so I hopped off which scared and embarrased me a lil...

Thats why i've joined this health forum to find out abit more. Hope all u guys out there can help me out! It would be great.
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dramaqueen replied on August 29th, 2006
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Blackrose, believe me, if you had ever had an orgasm, you would know for sure that you had. It doesn't sound like you have. The liquid you were talking about is most likely just your body creating a natural lubricant as it was being stimulated. Your body does this so things go "more smoothly" when you have sex. Some of us women are just very unlucky in the fact that it is difficult for us to reach an orgasm. Other women out there are very lucky in that it is very easy for them to orgasm. A lot of women have that same sensation of needing to urinate. I am the same way, and unfortunately have never gotten past it. I always stop at this point, as it is extremely uncomfortable. I always had the sneaking suspicion that if I could get past this point good things would happen, but it is too uncomfortable, so I never have. This is probably a little much for this sight, but if you have a child already you are by no means naive, I would try a sexual aid (vibrator) with clitoral stimulation. Many women can reach an orgasm this way. If the sensation is uncomfortable, try stimulating below the clitoris, and not directly on it. That might help.
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blackrose replied on August 29th, 2006
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dramaqueen wrote:
blackrose, believe me, if you had ever had an orgasm, you would know for sure that you had. It doesn't sound like you have. The liquid you were talking about is most likely just your body creating a natural lubricant as it was being stimulated. Your body does this so things go "more smoothly" when you have sex. Some of us women are just very unlucky in the fact that it is difficult for us to reach an orgasm. Other women out there are very lucky in that it is very easy for them to orgasm. A lot of women have that same sensation of needing to urinate. I am the same way, and unfortunately have never gotten past it. I always stop at this point, as it is extremely uncomfortable. I always had the sneaking suspicion that if I could get past this point good things would happen, but it is too uncomfortable, so I never have. This is probably a little much for this sight, but if you have a child already you are by no means naive, I would try a sexual aid (vibrator) with clitoral stimulation. Many women can reach an orgasm this way. If the sensation is uncomfortable, try stimulating below the clitoris, and not directly on it. That might help.


thnx dramaqueen...I understand wat ur saying but I really think the liquid that came out at that time was pee...It felt like water...But pee..U no wat im saying?? After dat...I wasnt interested in continuing and had to stop.

Are u able to describe wat they look and feel like?? Im very curious!

They say when u have an orgasm they feel like a tingling sensation, like fireworks..Is dat true??

So are u saying....In the past 5 years...3 partners...And I havent orgasmed???!!!
Wow!!

Maybe I should spend a lil more time knowing myself sexually, hmmm..

Thanks
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dramaqueen replied on August 29th, 2006
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Hey if you know how to do the personal messages yet, since I am computer illiterate for the most part, then send me a personal message and I will talk to you there, I really don't mind discussing these things, but have found some of the people on this sight can be easily offended. Okay? Hope to hear from you then.
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