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Q: What Does Cum Look And Feel Like??help!!

asked by: blackrose on August 27th, 2006

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I used to be sexually active but after reading magazine articles and that...I start to think that I dont think i've ever really orgasm or cum!! Do all women have to cum?? There was a time where I had tried masturbating by clitoral stimulation and I had the urge to pee so I stopped. I tried again another time but kept going...Then a thin liquid came out...Im afraid this might be pee and not cum...I want to know how do they (cum) feel and look like..Should it be a bit thick?? White??

I dont think i've ever reached the "big o" as its known but i've had the feeling good thing going on...Im abit worried.
I've also got a 2yrs old daughter and eversince they birth i've lost interest in sex...I think im too loose or something...Does pelvic floor exercises really help?? I dont think I can ever cum or close to it.

They say it feels a little tingly thing going on when u have an orgasm..I dont think i've ever been there. Once, I was on top of my bf position and had a lot of clitoral stimulation going on..Suddenly I had the same urge to pee so I hopped off which scared and embarrased me a lil...

Thats why i've joined this health forum to find out abit more. Hope all u guys out there can help me out! It would be great.

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dramaqueen

replied on August 29th, 2006

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Blackrose, believe me, if you had ever had an orgasm, you would know for sure that you had. It doesn't sound like you have. The liquid you were talking about is most likely just your body creating a natural lubricant as it was being stimulated. Your body does this so things go "more smoothly" when you have sex. Some of us women are just very unlucky in the fact that it is difficult for us to reach an orgasm. Other women out there are very lucky in that it is very easy for them to orgasm. A lot of women have that same sensation of needing to urinate. I am the same way, and unfortunately have never gotten past it. I always stop at this point, as it is extremely uncomfortable. I always had the sneaking suspicion that if I could get past this point good things would happen, but it is too uncomfortable, so I never have. This is probably a little much for this sight, but if you have a child already you are by no means naive, I would try a sexual aid (vibrator) with clitoral stimulation. Many women can reach an orgasm this way. If the sensation is uncomfortable, try stimulating below the clitoris, and not directly on it. That might help.

blackrose

replied on August 29th, 2006

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dramaqueen wrote:

blackrose, believe me, if you had ever had an orgasm, you would know for sure that you had. It doesn't sound like you have. The liquid you were talking about is most likely just your body creating a natural lubricant as it was being stimulated. Your body does this so things go "more smoothly" when you have sex. Some of us women are just very unlucky in the fact that it is difficult for us to reach an orgasm. Other women out there are very lucky in that it is very easy for them to orgasm. A lot of women have that same sensation of needing to urinate. I am the same way, and unfortunately have never gotten past it. I always stop at this point, as it is extremely uncomfortable. I always had the sneaking suspicion that if I could get past this point good things would happen, but it is too uncomfortable, so I never have. This is probably a little much for this sight, but if you have a child already you are by no means naive, I would try a sexual aid (vibrator) with clitoral stimulation. Many women can reach an orgasm this way. If the sensation is uncomfortable, try stimulating below the clitoris, and not directly on it. That might help.

thnx dramaqueen...I understand wat ur saying but I really think the liquid that came out at that time was pee...It felt like water...But pee..U no wat im saying?? After dat...I wasnt interested in continuing and had to stop.

Are u able to describe wat they look and feel like?? Im very curious!

They say when u have an orgasm they feel like a tingling sensation, like fireworks..Is dat true??

So are u saying....In the past 5 years...3 partners...And I havent orgasmed???!!!
Wow!!

Maybe I should spend a lil more time knowing myself sexually, hmmm..

Thanks

dramaqueen

replied on August 29th, 2006

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Hey if you know how to do the personal messages yet, since I am computer illiterate for the most part, then send me a personal message and I will talk to you there, I really don't mind discussing these things, but have found some of the people on this sight can be easily offended. Okay? Hope to hear from you then.

JOEL_01

replied on June 16th, 2009

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not me

xiheartthrosbyx

replied on June 20th, 2009

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black rose,
sounds like what you're descirbing is female ejaculation want to know how i know? because i myself had the same thing happened. the first time it happens, you don't really know what it is i did some re-search & watched a really good documentry about female orgasms. it does exist & it does sound like you've experienced an orgasm. most women have had an orgasm in their life they just don't really know what to expect when they have one because each women orgasms differently. Smile

female ejaculation also contains traces of urine & comes from the same hole usually nothing to be embarressed about but i admit, i was rather embarrassed when it happened to me. & also rubbing below the clitoris does nothing. the clitoris is where most of the stimulation comes from. gosh women get to know your vaginas better!

ivar888

replied on June 21st, 2009

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aaaahhhhhh what am i doing here

nidur

replied on November 12th, 2009

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masterbation

recently i masturbated using an object for penetration purposes for the first time. It was great and I think I actually reached my climax. When I was finished there was a white substance(kinda slimy and kinda sticky, creamy) on the back of the object not in the front where my secretion glans are. The substance was not there during the first part of the progression but showed up like an hour into the progression. Was it cum? and if it was why was all of it in the back and not in the front where my secretion glands are?

CarolineEF

replied on November 12th, 2009

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Yes, this was your cum...Kind of a wonderful delayed reaction...It is in the back, because much of it coming from your cervix and vaginal juices...Be careful of the object that you use...Wash it in warm water and keep it sanitary...Take care,

Caroline

nidur

replied on November 17th, 2009

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How do i tell the difference between discharge, which is also white at times and cum? What do you mean "kind of a wonderful delayed reaction?" Another question I have is, are there not two different ways that a woman climaxes. 1 by stimulating the clitorus and then eventually reaching your peak as one is being stimulated. 2. through regular intercourse where the clitorus is not being touched? I have experienced a climated through clitoral stimultion and I think I experienced a climax thru regular intercourse. All the signs were present( pulsading clitorus and vaginal walls, feeling intense blood circulation, but I dont know when the actual climax happened I just know I experienced the after affects) . If I did experience the climax through the regular intercourse am I correct in saying the sensations are different when experiencing the two different climaxes? Clitoral being more DEFINANT and normal intercourse not as certain?

CarolineEF

replied on November 17th, 2009

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First, by "delayed reaction" I mean that you can think of an erotic sexual act that happened a few hours earlier and get aroused by revisiting that place in your mind....This alone can make you wet...Another word for this is cum...

There is definitely a difference between vaginal and clitoral orgasms...With vaginal, often you have to know how to pull the trigger...With clit, it tells you when you are ready and you let it go....

If you orgasm by clitoris, the cum is the same as it would be through vaginal orgasms....This comes from the cervix and the vaginal walls...If your boyfriend has ejaculated in you, then you have his cum too....Hope this helps...Take care...

Caroline

P.S. The only time that you may find a difference in this is during your cycle...It is then that it may be thicker and with more body....

curyhairchick305

replied on November 17th, 2009

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How can I masterbate without penetrating my vagina?? Do you get me??

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