Blackrose, believe me, if you had ever had
an orgasm, you would know for sure that
you had. It doesn't sound like you have.
The liquid you were talking about is most
likely just your body creating a natural
lubricant as it was being stimulated.
Your body does this so things go "more
smoothly" when you have sex. Some of us
women are just very unlucky in the fact
that it is difficult for us to reach an
orgasm. Other women out there are very
lucky in that it is very easy for them to
orgasm. A lot of women have that same
sensation of needing to urinate. I am the
same way, and unfortunately have never
gotten past it. I always stop at this
point, as it is extremely uncomfortable.
I always had the sneaking suspicion that
if I could get past this point good things
would happen, but it is too uncomfortable,
so I never have. This is probably a
little much for this sight, but if you
have a child already you are by no means
naive, I would try a sexual aid (vibrator)
with clitoral stimulation. Many women can
reach an orgasm this way. If the
sensation is uncomfortable, try
stimulating below the clitoris, and not
directly on it. That might help.
