Ah, yes, this reminds of the time when i... *wistful smile*

uh, nevermind.

At any rate, in my experience the only thing you can do is wait. Yes, wait it out. Take your vitamins, get some rest, and keep things away from your pretty parts. I'd avoid soap, chlorine and any other chemicals "down there". Soap = bad, by the way...Water will clean you just fine. If this gets worse...Perhaps an infection or an std has set in. Go to your doc!

Thanks birch for the advice, yes your advice seems to be the best.The swelling is decreasing.Since I shave down there I can make out a small difference.I just used warm water, it felt nice.Funny thing is when I told my boy freind about the swelling he told even his penis was swollen.
Anyways thanks for the advice.
One more question since you had multiple sex sessions the same day.
Did you enjoy every time you had it?

Going from having no sex, to ramming 6 times a day *naughteh :p*


will make u sore, just try to chill a bit. And take it easy mate.

Its all good.

are you kidding me?Thats gross! You need to clean yourself down there whether it hurts or not.She actually could contract an infection rather than keep it away.At least use soem hand soap,it wont sting as much as regular soap would

Actually it has reduced a lot. I did not do anything much just warm water and mild soap. When we had sex the last time I was drunk and my bf had couple of drinks , I remember he going down on me. May be he was a little hard .I will wait for couple more days if there is still swelling I may go to the doc.Anyways as cherry said it was a little too much from no sex to a lot hehe

you'll be fine.Just wait a while and it will go away.Next time don't ram each other so much! Lol

thanks melissa lol I wont ram so much next time.

[/quote] are you kidding me?Thats gross! You need to clean yourself down there whether it hurts or not.She actually could contract an infection rather than keep it away.At least use soem hand soap,it wont sting as much as regular soap would[/quote]

it's not gross. Just something new to you. Soap is not always good for you. It dries out mucous membranes, strips your skin of necessary oils, and can cause numerous epidermal problems.
You don't "contract" an infection by not using soap. If you already have an infection, anywhere, it is best to keep it clean-and just using water will do this. Actually using alcohol, hydrogen perioxide and other commercial "cleansers' on open wounds will harm the cell structure, making scarring and healing more difficult. Also, taking vitamins and eating healthy will do far more for you than any antibiotics.

[quote=babe2005]one more question since you had multiple sex sessions the same day.
Did you enjoy every time you had it?[/quote]

not at first, but I "got into" it. But once I was sore during sex, I said time's up! Nothing worse than having to cry everytime you pee. :)

Guys I am really confused coz when I bath and as a "pre-sex step" I always wash my outer labia and inner labia(i mean the inside including clitoris) with mild non perfumed soap.I never put soap inside the vagina .
I have read that the vagina is self cleansed and you should not put soap inside.But now I am confused when someone says "don't apply soap there".Does it mean dont apply soap inside vagina or even the labia ?

if you have never experienced any problems with soap (irritation), keep doing what you have been doing.