Problems

Aww,hun,tell him it is not all you! Do you think it could be preg hormones? Did he cheat on you? If her has been doing those things you said I would be pissed too.You have every right! Tell him if he doesn't listen you will go else where.How long has this been going on? Do you guys spend a lot of time together?

O hun im feeling you I think men are just insensitive sometimes, mind makes stupid comments that piiss me off, he said I neglect my kids cause I go outside to have a smoke (yes I neglect them so much cause im saving their lungs~sarcastically~.)

anyways I got pissed off cause it is not the first time I told him hes says it again im kicking him out damn bloody right, hun put your foot down woman should not have to put up with bs from anyone/men. All I can suggest is sit him down and talk if he doesnt want to tell him your sick of his attitutde (well in a nicer way) and that if he doesnt smarten up you will go elsewhere someone else will treat you better!!!

Goodluck

No we do not spend alot of time together now. It was just me and him for 2years stright we were best friends, we had eachother and now it is my brother, his girlfriendthe two kids and then me way behind. I really hate it and the only reason everything changed is because we have people that live with us and they are making our marriage hell. We are not the same people and all I do is b*t*h because i'm not happy and I want my old life back. I really want my husband and my best friend back. I miss him so much and he is right in front of me. It did not help that they moved here and that next week I got pregnant and then my life has changed so much. I'm a evil person now and everyone tells me that its not good for my little girl but I cant help myself. I put up with so much that it just keeps building up and then I just let it all out on who ever angers me off first. I hat being that crazy person. I want to be happy and myself again. I's so stressed out.

I do the exact same thing I keep things in too long then when I finally confront my man and he doesnt understand it sends me to beyond being irate, men can be stupid sometimes (no offense (in regards to mine)

anyways yeah living with family can add stress we did that and I hated my bil now we get along better, I almost walked out on mine about 5 times in the past 5 months and omg im going insane he never understands. Men have this thing where its likw your talking to a wall you dont feel appreciated and just wish they would bloody listen "yeah right lol."


anyways if ever you need to chat send me a pm

Why not give these people a month or so to get out on their own, don't you think that will help? Then you might get your life back with your mate.
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I know it will get better when they move out and i'm just going to have to try to just get along with everyone even when I dont want to. I told my hubby last night that I want to be happy again and that he is going to have to help me with talking about things so I want keep them all locked in. He said he will help as much as possible. I had a really good night lastnight all we did was lay on the couch and cuddled and watched tv. It was really nice and I told him that if every night was this great that I would be a really happy person. : ) the thing is that is was that way all the time when it was just me and him, then they moved here and it got really bad, we never talked and was always into it about something. I just hope it stays this way till they leave, and then I really will be the happiest person on this world. I'm really a nice person and get along with everyone but you can only take so much and I was pushed over the edge.
Heather

There are moving out on the 15th of sept and I cant wait. The funny thing is they are my family, my brother and girlfriend and two kids. Kap knows that they are screwing everything up but he is a nice person and my brother is really the only friend he has.