Women don't even know it until they go to have their yearly pap. About all they have to do is stick a long slender swab down your your penis and get a little sample of whats down there and test it. Ohh and i'm sure all men that read this are going ouch.....But hey we ladies have to have worse done to us on a reg. Basis. If your worried get tested...Most people who have hpv don't even know they have it...Men & women.