I been with my man for 8years and 1 month we never use a condom , we been trying to get pregnet for 4years but the 4 other years we still didn't use nothing!! We have a really good job and have alot of money so if I need (or him) to go get something done that isn't a problem, I went to the doctors and they had me write down my temp. Every morning b4 I got up and it was kinda weird like getting really low then high and just doing that alot never staying high (so I was ovalating) so then my period would come and then i'd have to wait and so that again for 5 months this went on and for now I just been staying if it happens it happens. But I really want a boy (or a girl) but there is all girls in my family and me and my boyfriend only have each other his mom past away and he wants part of him here...I dont know just if u have any ideas email me, thanks ya'all