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Q: M I Confused Or Gay Or Str8 ?

asked by: innocent_boi on August 24th, 2006

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I have had 5 ex boyyfriend and I do not have any galfriend. I have the feel of kissing n hugging a boy a lot.When I was on the street ,i tend to look at boys far more than a gal.I was so-called atracted by the boys.Whereas for gals,,when I see a nice pretty one, I would just think they are pretty thats all.I dont even think of kissing her.But for guys I would have thought of it.

I have been naked with boys and whenever I see them with their dicks naked, I find them awful and disgusting.I just dont know y whwnever I see dicks, I will think is disgusting,and I wont have the craving to suck or touch it.I find it disgusting.

I do not masterbate coz I do not feel high in seeing gay porn or dicks. I will erect at times .But no matter how much I stroke my own dick,i do not feel high at all.I do not sense anything coming out from my dick(sperm).But indeed I do have wet-dream.

Q1: am I a normal guy ?
Q2: is it normal not to masterbate?
Q3: how can I make myself more high to ensure that spem actually comes out from my dick?
Q4: am I considered gay bi or str guys?

Replies(2)

prettyprettypirincess

replied on July 16th, 2007

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Q1: am I a normal guy ?
the only definition of normal is *a city in central illinois*
so like dont worry about being normal, just be you

Q2: is it normal not to masturbate?
you dont have to masturbate
like its not a rule or anything
i mean i dont, its messy and gross
bleh! haha

Q3: how can I make myself more high to ensure that sperm actually comes out from my penis?
Dont worry when the time comes
and your with the right Guy/Chick
it'll happen dont rush it

Q4: am I considered gay bi or str guys?
you are who u wanna be
if u wanna like guys and chicks then ur still you
no one can change that

my advice is to stop worrying so much
you'll meet the right one for u
just live life as it is
and love every second of it
good luck cutie

peace love
spread the word

Tylanas

replied on July 17th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

Re: M I Confused Or Gay Or Str8 ?

innocent_boi wrote:

Hm, that's interesting... have you ever seen a girl naked, even just on the internet or something? Maybe you're into tom-boys; instead of prissy girls? It sounds like you haven't given girls a chance, and guys clearly aren't working for you. Yeah you like to kiss them and stuff, but if you're not attracted to their genitals, that's going to put a big damper on sex later on in life! I think you need to explore girls now; see the other side of the fence.

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I do not masterbate coz I do not feel high in seeing gay porn or dicks. I will erect at times .But no matter how much I stroke my own penis,i do not feel high at all.I do not sense anything coming out from my penis(sperm).But indeed I do have wet-dream.

Have you tried looking at straight porn? Maybe you're straight but you don't know it because you've never had a straight experience... that's what it sounds like to me.

Hah! Lots of times we get questions from people who swear they are straight and have only had straight experience but it doesn't make them happy. You're the opposite! You've only had gay experiences, but they aren't making you happy, so now you should try some straight stuff!

Q1: am I a normal guy ?
Of course ya are!! Everyone is normal pretty much

Q2: is it normal not to masterbate?
Yep. Lots of people don't masturbate. In your case, I think it is actually a case where you haven't seen anything to properly turn you on. If you've only looked at gay porn, and it doesn't turn you on, then maybe you need to try straight porn!

Q3: how can I make myself more high to ensure that spem actually comes out from my penis?
I don't know what you mean by "high". You need to be aroused, turned on, horny, etc... And it can be a mental thing. Many people masturbate and orgasm (have sperm come out) without watching porn!!

Q4: am I considered gay bi or str guys?
I don't know. At this point, I would consider your sexuality "unformed". You don't know what you like yet. I think you need to try out straight activities and see how that works for you!

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