Hey im 13 too!! Dont worry everything will be ok!! Even if u are pregnant things will work out! Its easy to tell ur mom..! She loves u no matter what and it'll disappoint her in the beginin but she'll get over it!! Hope this helps im me if u need anything! Cant say i'll be too much heeelp i've been in a bad mood! (prettyeyedqt1)

Oh...Calm down sweetie...

Chances are very low! Dont stress just yet! I suggest u to buy a coupld of home preg test, though I think since he did not orgasm inside u, it;s not that likely!

But just to be sure, take a few test to make sure, but take them in the span of a week or two

I hate to be the person who says that it isnt likely, but I am, and it is likely that you can get pregnant from pre cum. Have you started your period yet? If so and you had intercourse while your egg was down and before you started ovulating, or while you were ovulating (before you start bleeding) there is a possibility of you becoming pg. I had unprotected sex twice, maybe a week and a half before I was supposed to start bleeding. He didnt come in me but I am now 3 weeks late. So bae, if you missed your pd, go get a pg test!! Good luck!!

I think we're missing one very important piece of advice here, girls. The most serious thing that can happen to you with unprotected sex, no it's not pregnancy!, is sexually transmitted disease. Every single time you exchange sexual body fluid with someone (through intercourse or oral sex) you are risking your life. Think about this and think about it hard, please.

Ask yourself one very important question as well. Are you, at the age of 13 (or 14, 16, 18, even 25) ready to make decisions that will affect you for the rest of your natural life? Also, are you ready to make decisions that will affect another person (your boyfriend, your parents, your future child/children) for the rest of their life? I'm 32 and even i'm not sure I like to answer that question. Everything I do in my life has the potential to affect the ones I love, including the children I have now and the ones I intend to have.

Just some food for thought ... I'll be happy to email/chat with anyone who is interested in talking further. Believe me, i'm not preaching and i'm not judging. I found myself pregnant at 17 years old so I understand what you are going through, believe me.

Take care - momindallas

im scared to. im 13. i had sex for the first time last week? idk.. it was unprotected but didnt last that long i think i dnt remember. im due for my period but instead of my period i it was like brown discharge stuff.

chillypepper123, why did you have unprotected sex?

thats normal for your age, it's because your cycle isn't really set yet. that happend to me my first couple periods instead of red blood, nothing to worry about.

and it doesn't matter if they had sex or not aochriss, she needs help not judgment on her age. people do things, but this is a place for help. don't you think she would of gone to her mother if she wasnt worried about how young she is?

I was wondering if she was trying to get pregnant or not. It's a legitimate question.

hey kelly and chillypepper123 im scared to i and 13 to and i had sex last week i didnt use a condom and i missed my period my scared to tell my mom and dad because my moms gonna yell at me and say im to young to be havin sex and my dad gonna woop me can somebody help me please

ok one more thing so i had sex last week for the first time and it hurted and it bleed a lot what is that can somebody please tell me

When you have sex for the first time, you tear, and bleed. Dont worry, its perfectly normal.

That is not true...not everyone bleeds. It is very common for girls to tear their hymen earlier on in life prior to having sex.

13 YEAR OLDS HAVING SEX

what has happened to the world
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okk im 13 too and i had sex for tha first time last week.. im so scared ive been getting headaches my stomach hurts and sometimes i feel lyyke throwing up... i dnt even want to tell my mom cuz she'll yell at me and woop ma butt.

Did you use condoms?

Its too early for symptoms

the best i can tell all of you girls is to tell your mom about it because she will love you no matter what and she will most likely be more worried about you than mad or u can ask ur doctor because they can not say anything to your parents if u ask for a pregnancy test also if u can get a ride to a planned parent hood they will give u a pregnancy test p.s. planned parent hood can give u free birth control if u have ur social security number and they will not tell your parents. msg. me if any of u need sum1 to talk to