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Q: Im So Scared!! Please Read!!

asked by: bojangle on August 23rd, 2006

New User

Im 16,uncircumsized,and a virgin and me and my girlfriend are planning on having sex sometime soon. But from reading some posts on this forum I am really scared now. I think I might have frenulum breve,phimosis and paraphimosis. Im totally freaked out to have sex now because I think it will be extremely painful because the frenulum ripping and bleeding and the painful foreskin retraction.

The reason why I think I have phimosis because I cant retract my foreskin all the way because it is painful. I can pull it back past the glans when it is soft but it still hurts and my frenulum stops me from pulling it back.

Http://dermis.Multimedica.De/bilder/cd054/ 550px/img0093.Jpg

thats what mine pretty much looks like when I pull my foreskin back when I am soft.

Http://www.Foreskin.Org/phimosis.Htm (copy and paste address into the address bar and change the htm to htm to see link)

thats what mine pretty much looks like when I pull my foreskin back when I am hard.

I dont know what to do because I have nobody to talk to about this problem in real life because I dont have a father and I wont tell my mom.

Am I normal?Do I have to get surgery?Should I have sex?

Please please please help me.

Replies(10)

Breve

replied on August 25th, 2006

New User

My advice is to just make an appointment with a specialist, he'll know what to do
and it's nothing to be ashamed of

here the topic about my frenulum breve operation:
http://ehealthforum.Com/health/topic51059. Html

danneedshelp

replied on August 27th, 2006

New User

I know how you feel. I am also uncircumsized and had an idea that sex would be painful. But when the time came, everything was alright.
Did you know that an uncircumsized penis has the ability to have more pleasure during sex? Its a fact. Dont worry :)

pauly boy

replied on August 28th, 2006

Experienced User

Dont Worry

It wont kill you,ok relax,see the doctor for some medication..

bojangle

replied on August 29th, 2006

New User

Well everythings okay cuz I had sex with my girlfriend and I felt no pain and everything worked out great and my foreskin is starting to stretch because I am stretching it almost daily

pauly boy

replied on August 29th, 2006

Experienced User

Well There U Go

Good luck....

bojangle

replied on August 29th, 2006

New User

Thanks for the help everyone
i guess I was just all scared and anxious cuz it was my first time
but now thats its done and over with I have no reason to be all paranoid

asian_trail

replied on February 17th, 2007

New User

Read my post
http://ehealthforum.Com/health/topic 84482.Html

younglad

replied on July 18th, 2007

Experienced User

-frenulum breve
-phimosis
-paraphimosis.

can some one please describe me what these are pleasE?

i can pull my skin back when soft, not when semi-erect, i say semi-erect as i av never had full erection (i am getting treated)

Tylanas

replied on July 18th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

younglad wrote:

Frenulum Breve - when the small strip of skin beneath the head of the penis breaks.

Phimosis - the inability to retract the foreskin over the head of the penis.

I'm not sure what Paraphimosis is, but I would assume it is a different form of phimosis, possibly referring to how far the foreskin can retract and during what stage of arousal.

BEN L

replied on July 22nd, 2007

New User

Frenulum Breve

I dont know about you guys in the states but here in England we have a nickname for frenulum breve----its called a banjo string...
so if it snaps during sex the conversation down the pub/bar would go === you'll never believe what happened last night with that bird i pulled, i took her back to my place and while i was shaggin er me freakin banjo string snapped !! so if u ever come over the pond remember the lingo

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