Posting for my cousin, just wanted to get some more opinions (sorry it's so long):

my cousin (age 26) has been with a man for 10 years...Pretty much the only man she has dated, had sex with, etc. She has a beautiful 5 month old baby boy. Their relationship has always been somewhat strange, but now that the baby is involved she is having a really hard time. They have a home together but its interesting because his parents gave a good amount of money for the down payment (he is an only child) and they constantly deposit money into his account. He is not there as a father, lover or companion, he basically pays the bills and that's about it (although at times he will not have money to give for daycare or other baby expenses) . He is a volunteer firefighter, he works full time and makes the firehouse his other full time job. He has not spent more then an hour alone with logan and still has yet to change a dirty diaper. My cousin is very lonely...She is just looking for some affection, some love and attention for both herself and her son. Her parents have even welcomed her to move back in with them. I think this has been a relationship of convenience for so long that she is just not sure what to do, but now that logan is here, she doesn't feel that it is okay for him to just up and leave when he feels like it...He doesn't even sit and have dinner with her. This isn't even half of it but maybe you can get the gist. What would you tell her? Help!