I do not currently take any medications, and am pretty healthy. Last night and this morning, my erection suddenly went away. Before sex last night, everything down there was fine and ready to roll, and right before it happend it just went limp. I had pee'd quite a bit that night, did not drink any alcohol, just had to urinate a lot. We fooled around for awhile before going to the bedroom and my erection was fine the hole time. And suddenly before went down. After laying there feeling bad for awhile, we were in bed and kinda grinded around on each other. My erection came back but only for about 5 minutes and just went away. This evening the same thing happend, but we did not fool around very long first, it just went limp. Any idea on how I can imrpove this?
I have the same problem, have also been to 2 Urologists. One said it's a psycological issue and the other after all checks and physical examination, prescribed Viagra.
It's like, when I use Viagra (which I've done many times), everything is normal and I can go on with my girlfriend for hours, but when I'm not on Viagra, my erection suddenly drops!! during foreplay or when we're about to remove the clothes for intercourse during foreplay.....it's very embarrassing.
Currently i'm experimenting with homeopathy, will let you know if I come up with a cure. You do the same and let's keep in touch!!
to be honest, if this is the only time your have lost your erection, there is no need for you to worry. i know it's a cliche, but it happens to all guys! you are a person, not a sex machine! all sorts of things can stop you getting properly in the mood - if you are tired or stressed, or something else is distracting you for example. it doesn't mean you have a problem. just relax! take it easy, don't worry about it and you will be fine.
Fiona..........to respond to your message, why does this happen everytime I don't take a Viagra dose? Do I have to take Viagra for the rest of my life. Why can't I have strong and solid erections which stay for hours (at least half an hour) like some people I've seen, not just heard!! Can this be a case of Penile Venous Leakage? where blood flows out of the penis too quickly and the erection drops...?