Stacie hi! I am danielle, mother of 3 children, one is almost 7 years, then 3 1/2 years and my youngest almost 11 months! To help prevent the gagging, give him foods cut in bite size pieces, they should be about ½ by ½ inches, so he won’t choke. Make sure that he is drinking while eating, because sometimes they don’t get enough saliva and its hard to swallow, causing the gagging. Hope this helps.