Hey, men go through just as many mood swings as us women do. Especially during their girlfriends/wives pregnancy, remember this is all new to them too. Thats a big role to take on being a daddy, look at all the new responsibilities he is going to have too. Just try to stay calm and patient with him is my only advice right now...Good luck!
Melissa

Alright well we sat down and talked about things but the answer to everything I asked was "i dunno" so I got a little worried about everything, hes making it really difficult to trust him now. And today I found something out that disturbed me a bit. I called his cell phone because I thought he was at work but his step brother answered and informed me that the past couple days they didnt have work. So basically he lied and told me that hes been going off to work when really hes been going out with his step brother doing who knows what. I confronted him about it and again all he said was "i dunno". When he got home I had locked him out of the house cause I was too upset to let him in and talk to me. Hes over at his moms house right now cause she lives right next door and he keeps calling me. What should I do?!?!?!?! Everytime I ask him what hes been doing or why he lied I never get an answer. Theres gotta be something going on, and right now I cant handle all this stress. Should I just move back into my moms house until this gets straighten out or should I just let him back in the house and wait until he decides to talk? This sucks lol

Hey,

i think you should tell him to tell you the truth or you wont let him back in..Maybe its nothing at all or maybe it is...Just take a bath or a long walk and think about everything. Or just play music loud and sing..It always works with me when I am about to lose it..If u wanna talk pm me...Good luck!

Alison xoxo

Metal girl I am no expert but when they cant give you a straight answer that is always a problem. Relationships are built off trust and communication. I would demand answers now! If he still cant give you a straight answer I would look at my options and maybe move on

Well after I posted that (not even 15 minutes ago) I went to take a walk with my mom cause she came over and he seen me walk outside so he ran after me. He said he was sorry and all that stuff but sorry loses its meaning after you heard it so many times ya know? So I told him he could go back home but I was gonna be gone for awhile. So me and my mom walked around town for a bit and talked about things. I came back in and he explained that he didnt tell me he was off of work cause he wanted to go and hang out with his friends instead of staying home all day. Ok...Is it just me or was lying about work pointless? He acts like I would have killed him or something if he went out with his friends. He should know by now that if he lies about something I will find out about it sooner or later. Sometimes I wish I had the guts to get up and leave. If he still acts like this when the babies are born i'm moving back home with my mom because I do not want to children growing up around parents who fight constantly. I dont know why he decided to start lying to me about these things while i'm pregnant with his kids. He was never like this before.....