Sexual Health - Women Forum - Sex Seems Impossible :(

Me and my boyfriend both love each other, have been going out about and year and a half, neither have had sex before but we have been trying to have sex for about 6 months!I'm so worried that we don't physically seem tobe able to have sex. Is this possible?, we are both getting really upset and worried as we have tried everything, I don't want to loose him. I just seem to be really tight, and he is quite large, we try with lubrication but just seems like he's pushing into a brick wall,we've tried a few positions, I really have know idea what to do, I try and stretch myself but nothin seems to work. We're nearly 20 and it just seems ridiculous and unfair...Please please help, its really upsetting us both. X

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Tylanas

replied on August 21st, 2006

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You're just going to have to keep up with the stretching; do it in the shower when your body is the most relaxed, and get yourself as wide as you can. Also, you will have to remember to relaxt during sex! Perhaps buying a dildo that is smaller than he is can help you stretch further and become more used to the sensation. It's not the inside of your vagina you have to worry about; it's the entrance. Once something is inside, trust me it will fit (girth wise, length of course, you only have 8-9 inchest of vagina). Use lot of lube, as always, and go slow :) in the mean time, enjoy the other kids of sex, like oral and mutual masturbation!

fiona05

replied on August 22nd, 2006

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Hey, been reading your post, I can understand your frustration! Six months is a long time, and since you've already tried using lubrication i'm not sure what else to suggest. You really do need to relax. You need to ensure you're not tensing up - make sure you are fully aroused before he tries to enter you. Use the lube. If all this fails, then I guess all there is to do is visit a female doctor, explain your problem and see if she will do an examination to give you a better idea of what's going on, give you some suggestions and why this is happening

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