Me and my boyfriend both love each other,
have been going out about and year and a
half, neither have had sex before but we
have been trying to have sex for about 6
months!I'm so worried that we don't
physically seem tobe able to have sex. Is
this possible?, we are both getting really
upset and worried as we have tried
everything, I don't want to loose him. I
just seem to be really tight, and he is
quite large, we try with lubrication but
just seems like he's pushing into a brick
wall,we've tried a few positions, I really
have know idea what to do, I try and
stretch myself but nothin seems to work.
We're nearly 20 and it just seems
ridiculous and unfair...Please please
help, its really upsetting us both. X
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-21-06 13:01pm
You're just going to have to keep up with
the stretching; do it in the shower when
your body is the most relaxed, and get
yourself as wide as you can. Also, you
will have to remember to relaxt during
sex! Perhaps buying a dildo that is
smaller than he is can help you stretch
further and become more used to the
sensation. It's not the inside of your
vagina you have to worry about; it's the
entrance. Once something is inside, trust
me it will fit (girth wise, length of
course, you only have 8-9 inchest of
vagina). Use lot of lube, as always, and
go slow :) in the mean time, enjoy the
other kids of sex, like oral and mutual
masturbation!
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fiona05
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Posted: 08-22-06 07:10am
Hey, been reading your post, I can
understand your frustration! Six months
is a long time, and since you've already
tried using lubrication i'm not sure what
else to suggest. You really do need to
relax. You need to ensure you're not
tensing up - make sure you are fully
aroused before he tries to enter you. Use
the lube. If all this fails, then I guess
all there is to do is visit a female
doctor, explain your problem and see if
she will do an examination to give you a
better idea of what's going on, give you
some suggestions and why this is happening
