So I love how I asked a simple question and got an attack for it. First of all, we never chose to become parents. My pregnancy wasn't planned...I'm only 18. But I do not for a second think that by having a baby at a young age i'm working myself into an early grave...Thats just ridiculious. And i've never heard a more pessimistic view on parenting that life will be miserable more often than not. How many mothers on this forum find life miserable?


I never said my boyfriend found my body repulsive. That was just an unfounded fear I had. Since when is it a crime to have fears about the future? Our relationship is based on so much more than phsyical attraction. He loves me for the person I am, and not just what I look like. But if anything, he loves me even more for the life i'm carrying inside of me. I know if he were faced with me, his pregnant girlfriend, or a slim attractive woman, without a doubt he would choose me. Our love is based on more than that. And no, he does not have a pregnancy fetish.


And no, i'm not waiting six months to tell my parents so they can't make me abort...Thats insane. My boyfriend and I live together, so my parents can't really make me do anything anymore. The bottom line is i'm scared to tell them, i'll admit that. I'm going to soon, just when I feel the time is right.


Sorry to bring all this up again, I just wanted to have my say but the topic was locked.